@relationshipswithaly: Why do people fake “check-mate?” Often it’s because deep down, you feel pressure to perform for your partner, or soothe their ego, or end the experience as quickly as possible because you’re not into it or uncomfortable. If any of these are true for you, it’s a sign that you need to start having OPEN, HONEST conversations with your partner about your chess life. Because faking checkmate leads to resentment and disconnection, so let’s get to the root of the issue and create a relationship you feel you can be authentically yourself in. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. THIS WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.
Don’t be afraid to talk about it. I’ve heard “I can’t win at this game can we play a different game?” That works for me as long as we both have a chance to win.
2025-05-20 22:53:48
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Afrika :
He’s better than me😭😭i don’t think I’m brave enough to admit this
2025-06-19 01:42:59
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Топовая Тян283 :
Yall should understand that this is not the final goal
2025-06-15 17:58:39
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zulutangoz :
Are we talking about chess?
2025-05-21 09:09:03
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Valhalla's Patriot :
seeing others have a safe space to express things and talk makes me happy that other ppl get that but honestly it reminds me just how much I feel unwanted and undesirable
2025-06-07 21:13:15
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madone :
Conversations are the start but actions get it done. He probably needs to feel comfortable not winning. Probably needs to feel like it’s still just as fun for you to participate with him than it is to just win and walk away.
2025-05-20 20:15:31
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CaptainDeadpool.123 :
how do guys fake it lol
2025-06-10 22:04:04
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