@ollierose_: No because the second someone says “mamas” I immediately wanna rip my face off and it’s like I KNOW some people mean well but I hate it so bad 😭
It feels so dismissive! I gave birth last month and literally put in my birth plan that I didn't want to be called mama(etc) by anyone but my son. I had to be SO assertive and remind people "I have a name, please address me by it."
2025-05-20 22:27:02
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M’Nda The Melated :
Can I ask the demographic? 👀
2025-05-20 22:18:02
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Kait| Disabled SAHM🍃 :
if you did not come in me or out of me you don't get to call me mama and my husband calling me that even gives me the ick at times tbh.
2025-05-20 23:03:09
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Bri :
It feels like a slur
2025-05-21 17:01:09
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Annie :
I'm from a place (Miami) where there is lots of calling femme people "mamma" in a not literally mother way. That feels sooo different than this kind of "mama" you are talking about. First one totally cool, second one seems so icky- and I've never even associated the two until this comment section.
2025-05-22 05:08:17
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Apple31415🍉 :
It feels so demeaning. Everytime a doctor or a teacher refers to me as mom I feel gross. I’m not your mom. I have a name and am more than my kid’s parent.
2025-05-22 23:35:06
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Toast :
my mom calls all my female cats "mommas" and I'm like they've never been mothers. agitates me.
2025-05-21 14:09:54
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Kiki's Human :
I haaaate adults calling me mama. I AM NOT YOUR MOTHER! YOU ARE NOT A BABY. USE YOUR GROWNUP WORDS!
2025-05-23 22:16:08
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Sami :
yes! "you got this mama" drives me nuts. like I know I got this, but I'm not just a mama, I'm a person and I get overstimulated and id like a break from being a jungle gym please and thank you
2025-05-24 11:21:01
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Jen Capra :
I called my dog mamas. Like that is not for human people that aren’t offspring.
2025-05-22 17:15:24
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Jayne :
Yup. I hate it hate it. If I didn’t birth you, don’t address me as “mama”.
2025-05-21 15:55:05
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alyssa.calhoun.j :
dude, especially at the doctors. so annoying
2025-05-22 18:34:58
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Alana Schreiber :
I can like hear the "hey mamasssss" when I see them write mama
2025-05-22 23:38:42
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Kristen :
it's a lot like that fake southern niceness - "bless your heart".. Like I'm from New Englad, I'd rather you just call me a bitch lmao
2025-05-22 12:58:56
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