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They need to see their parents disagree and work through disagreements. NOT arguments, that is what he is saying
2025-05-23 01:49:38
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Angel West :
Yep disagree and make up in front of them 🥰
2025-05-23 13:31:28
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nessas826 :
Disagreement = Discussions that you work through...kids need to see that. Fight = argument that is (or is borderline) volatile where respect goes out the window. Kids should *not* see that.
2025-05-23 16:59:22
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Vickie❌ :
Kids need to see healthy conflict resolution.
2025-05-29 16:03:09
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Lea Newman :
Thank you! I feel so much better about my life
2025-05-23 23:06:02
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𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ :
this! if they see you fight in front of them they need to see you resolve it in front of them!
2025-07-14 20:44:11
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Nurstink :
My husbands parents didn’t ever disagree in front of them but they felt it … it was so harmful
2025-05-25 23:40:22
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NewChapter2025 :
watching my mom and stepdad have arguments/disagreements in front of me (appropriate subjects) was eye opening. I took mental notes. they taught me what REAL love, understanding, compassion and a bond is. happily married 33 years
2025-05-29 07:11:36
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Jackie Zamudi232 :
My husband and I disagree politically. I'm very liberal and he is a little more conservative. We respectfully discuss our disagreements in front of our kids. They think we are fighting but I always remind them that it's a discussion. No voices raised, no disrespect.
2025-05-23 15:33:09
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laughing_water :
My kids saw all disagreements, but never our fights or arguments about discipline. those we did in private. we also apologized if we handled discipline wrong
2025-06-24 16:59:28
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FWtwinmom :
I lived in a house that had screaming fights. My husband never saw his parents fight. Neither one of us knew how to fight fair but most importantly RECONCILE. Learned a ton in marriage counseling and ReEngage our first few years in marriage.
2025-05-28 18:41:22
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Tam :
I tried to do this with my ex and he'd lose it and then play games and make the kids upset with me. It sucked
2025-05-23 04:27:34
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Nybor :
my parents taught me that disagreements are healthy to have in relationships because you can't agree 💯% of the time and I stand by this!
2025-05-28 05:55:55
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brandolyn2 :
kids need to she parents arguing but also see how the come back together and work it out.
2025-06-04 10:25:44
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Momma Dee :
YES! Don't "fight" per se, but have discussions in front of them, apologize in front of them, discuss money in front of your teens! They need to see that example so they know even adults disagree
2025-05-23 16:48:29
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crystaljesenski :
Amen to this! Kids need to see their parents argue!!!!!
2025-05-22 22:11:52
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Frede Smrdd :
Fighting in a : i disagree and i frustrated yes! But in some family … fighting is throwing stuff yelling insulting …. Dont do tjat in front of kids … dont do that at all… leave always
2025-05-23 02:24:06
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AKing2724 :
Yessss!!!!👏👏👏
2025-05-22 20:09:37
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Common courtesy/southern style :
Why do people not know this????
2025-05-22 17:31:36
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Beth33 :
What about the households who’s parents hide arguments but also don’t show affection in front of their kids or don’t like PDA
2025-05-22 21:09:14
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Jim :
My parents screamed all the time in front of each other. It was kind of traumatizing, but he might have a point.
2025-05-23 22:16:04
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kyleigh_nichols:) :
First
2025-05-22 17:01:49
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Ashka Aimers :
😁
2025-06-02 18:10:07
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Jenny :
@Dr. John Delony I emailed you a few weeks ago about this exact topic. My husband and I have been together 14 years. We have legit never had a fight. Ever. And I feel like we are doing our kids a disservice because of it. Our kids out 8 and 5, and they’ve NEVER seen a “fight” at home. 😩😩
2025-05-29 02:30:24
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Wendy Strachan :
❤️❤️❤️
2025-05-28 23:22:02
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