@shanboody: Listen, this one hit deep. Because sometimes it’s not laziness. Or avoidance. Or sabotage. Sometimes your body is holding onto a quiet contract that says: “Survival > Pleasure.” “Comfort > Change.” “Familiar pain > Unfamiliar possibility.” We call these hidden competing agreements, the subconscious stories that keep us in cycles we logically want out of, but emotionally still feel safe in. So before we beat ourselves up for not doing the thing (learning your body, changing your habits, setting that boundary), ask yourself: What secret need is this behavior actually serving? What’s a hidden agreement you’re ready to give up? @theejessiewoo

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dreamofty
Ty :
You have such a gift for explaining things that I feel but can rarely put words to Shan
2025-05-24 19:47:36
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nataliecampbellreid
Natalie Reid :
Watched the whole Convo yesterday and loved it and this part especially resonated with me.
2025-05-25 08:49:07
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thefridayfairy
Symone Nicole :
I literally had to tell my therapist about this part of the episode because it hit so hard. So good!
2025-06-03 11:54:47
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ctprac
CTprac :
could you possibly do a full episode on hidden competing agreements please? this concept really resonated with me.
2025-05-27 01:24:01
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Chocolovie :
This is whyyyyyyyy we should have conversations sweeties💯💯💯💯 I love this
2025-06-06 00:36:54
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Hidden competing agreements makes so much sense!
2025-06-06 13:44:10
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Now THIS! is brilliant
2025-05-24 21:53:28
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👏👏👏
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