@shanboody: Listen, this one hit deep. Because sometimes it’s not laziness. Or avoidance. Or sabotage. Sometimes your body is holding onto a quiet contract that says: “Survival > Pleasure.” “Comfort > Change.” “Familiar pain > Unfamiliar possibility.” We call these hidden competing agreements, the subconscious stories that keep us in cycles we logically want out of, but emotionally still feel safe in. So before we beat ourselves up for not doing the thing (learning your body, changing your habits, setting that boundary), ask yourself: What secret need is this behavior actually serving? What’s a hidden agreement you’re ready to give up? @theejessiewoo