I hold grudges and I don't forgive. I've never cared sorry
2025-05-22 17:33:45
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T 🇵🇸 🇨🇩 🇸🇩 :
Yup and I don’t believe in forgiveness either and I don’t care
2025-05-22 22:09:57
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🇨🇦InLockstepWithTheUniverse :
Autistic here. Yep, I have an ON/OFF switch with people. Once it's OFF, I'm done forever. I don't forget. I don't forgive. I track, I collect information, and yeah if those are grudges, I guess I hold all of them 👏
2025-05-23 15:44:03
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Amina | ADHD :
Yep!! I’m sorry holding grudges have protected us.
2025-05-22 20:04:54
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kemz :
My autism recognises the patterns, my adhd forgets the details of what they did 😂
2025-05-24 18:49:41
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chaurntae :
Personally I believe forgiveness and ‘choosing peace’ is a psy-op meant used to stop us revolting. Me? I will NEVER forgive, you will rue the day!
2025-05-23 08:17:15
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LA✮⋆˙ :
Sorry but not forgiving people is actually the most powerful and peaceful thing to do because you realise and reconcile with what happened and how you’ve assess and dealt with the cards offered to you
2025-05-23 08:38:26
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A B B Y 🌺 :
Doesn’t take me long to realise tbh🤣😁
2025-05-25 22:28:08
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_ :
No because once I come to the conclusion your in the WRONG I will not forget I’ll remember forever and act accordingly idc 😁
2025-05-23 05:41:17
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jen :
L i t e r a l l y. I’ve had people telling me not to hold a grudge against someone who has literally hurt me extremely deeply and I’m like…? Huh???? What??????
2025-05-22 17:53:40
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Poppy Locks :
I hold grudges for life, sorry
2025-05-23 19:00:12
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Leyla | Bassist :
Yup others call it a grudge. I call it a decision. I learnt what I needed to learn about you, wasn’t a fan so decided not to associate 🤷♀️
2025-05-23 07:32:47
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𓂀PRINCESS𓂀PEACE𓂀 :
For real 🦋 like ? They want me to ‘forgive & forget’ so they can just continue to be toxic like no
2025-05-23 10:11:24
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Extrahalalplease :
I tried being forgiving and letting things go but have been repeatedly proven that people who mistreat others will never stop. If you’re a bad person, you’re a bad person regardless of how I act.
2025-07-10 09:45:53
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chickensystems :
unless they wholeheartedly apologise without any outside intervention, i’m not forgiving, my whole class hates me now fyi i’m a masters student , not in primary. someone was being ableist to me and REFUSED to apologise until it would have an impact on her grade :’)
2025-06-21 19:48:59
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user16543.:5 :
If a genuine apology or accountability is taken can move on. Never had it yet so delete & block forever
2025-05-25 08:12:57
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Rochelle 💓💓 :
When I’ve called people out in the past because I’ve noticed patterns it’s always ’well why didn’t you say this before?’ Because I’ve only now just noticed the patterns!
2025-05-22 22:13:30
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☆ miku ☆ :
I genuinely dont hold grudges but I don't forget ? lol like im going to hold you accountable
2025-07-09 20:57:35
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whatever conciousness is :
love you girl💖
2025-05-27 19:00:53
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mossy_zur :
Thissss
2025-06-27 06:10:50
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Olu :
Scream it!!!!!
2025-05-24 09:47:00
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Ashley - Rae :
so that's a grudge? I forgive, I don't forget. I'll forgive a few more times but I'll discard it there's no change
2025-07-11 03:33:37
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Cal 2.0 :
When i try to forgive people like allistic people tell me to, i just end up ruminating 24/7 about the situation and i can never not think about it. I have to allow myself to NOT forgive to move on 😭
2025-05-23 08:22:26
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𝔩𝔢𝔫𝔦💫🦇 :
time won’t heal all wounds of your nervous system is still stuck there.
2025-05-23 11:17:35
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