No one is trying to gaslight you into thinking your husband hates you. These warnings come from a place of live experience because most men aren’t trying. And it’s a sad story, you looking upset, and your husband making you feel sad is a trigger. Without any background on who you are or your journey, it’s easy to say “run”.
2025-05-23 05:58:49
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Cinthia :
personally I'm glad you're teaching him how to communicate, you're like Ms.Rachel🥰
2025-05-25 14:32:05
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Elyse :
that's great and all but if the only reason he's choosing to correct his behavior is because you pointed out to him that it's a problem, he's not growing he's appeasing you and he's only going to continue to do so as long as you keep prompting him. abusive people are choosing to be abusive, that's the choice they're actively making. you correcting him isn't him choosing to learn or grow. the fact that he said it and your reaction didn't immediately prompt him to try to figure out what went wrong, the fact that he initially doubled down... it's not him putting in the effort
2025-05-23 06:20:54
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monstrrdolly! :
You have so much empathy, so much kindness for others. I believe you deserve to be treated with that same patience. So many women have too much patience for their significant other, so much patience that it only eats at them while benefitting said partner. But it sounds like you know when and where is too much. Don't let people, especially those so close to you, take advantage of your patience and kindness 💗 I hope I'm not overstepping
2025-05-23 03:05:53
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Alisha Maldonado :
Being silenced into tears because of his rude response is not healed, maybe on the way absolutely but there’s something that triggered that
2025-05-25 03:59:45
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Samaya The Therapist :
It is up to us. But he made you UNhappy. And I don’t like it. But I hope he recognized his mistake and does differently going forward.
2025-05-23 03:03:23
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vestigia65 :
I work in a DV shelter. If your husband is working with you on this that's amazing. Ignore the haters. Only you know him.
2025-05-23 11:01:10
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fae.dreamer.99 :
it's crazy to openly admit your partner is emotionally abusive and neglectful and not only stay with them but advocate for that choice like it's the good/safe choice people should take. girl I hope you get out safely one day.
2025-05-25 13:20:24
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