before planning my pregnancy I cheated. I was with someone from 15-21 he was 20 when I met him. you can imagine my childhood trauma, that pattern didn't break till I planned my kid. I cheated though bc when I tried to break things off he would call my mom drunk driving. I didn't want to be with him but I didn't want him doing that. having my daughter, planning her, I didn't want to do anything to jeopardize her future family. then I just turned into a better person for myself, not just her. her father and I aren't together but he will even say that I gave him all the reassurance possible. I needed to prove myself to me, that I am not the same person. if someone can't accept my past and love this version of me it's ok bc I love myself enough to not be looking for outward love anymore.
2025-06-01 17:09:30
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I am taken :
because they get board and the same old same old
2025-05-26 03:27:30
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Peggy :
My ex cheated on me not because I didn’t give him enough attention he did it for the thrill .. that betrayal destroyed me. I haven’t been with anyone else since as I’m a one person type . His cheat doesn’t say a thing about me that’s his issue to deal with. I believe if you truly love someone you can’t cheat thought never crossed my mind 28 years down the drain.
2025-06-02 17:31:44
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Jess :
Boredom….and they stay and cheat to save face..thinking “no one will know” the person being cheated on may not be the issue, it’s all about the person cheating the thrill of the newness the “escape from reality” ….it’s like why do people sky dive?” The adrenaline, sorry to compare it to that but that’s all I could think of
2025-05-31 15:14:54
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Tonja Gay :
I think couples cheat on each other because one of them are both of them in their relationship are not giving each other the attention or the love that they need so when that happens, it’s just normal for anybody to seek out what they desire
2025-05-26 03:42:52
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Lateisha Lee :
Ego boost, loneliness, not happy in current relationship
2025-05-29 15:36:18
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NookNook :
unhappy & trying to either dont know who they are or know what they want, or looking for bigger & better
2025-05-25 05:31:37
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Wondermaggie :
IMO, Cheating happens when communication fails. It’s a last resort to feel loved when your partner doesn’t hear you or simply doesn’t care about your needs.
2025-05-27 18:14:20
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Taffilove1437 :
They need constant attention and validation (because they feel like they're not good enough.) A cheater has no respect for themselves so, they can't respect a partner.
2025-06-02 04:15:10
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Ang Staples :
There is No Excuse for Cheating🥺 its in the other person Not yourself 🥺🥰
2025-05-25 04:49:31
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~ Kellie | UGC | Affiliate ~ :
In my opinion, there’s never a reason to cheat. If someone’s not your person, have the decency to leave. To me, it takes a certain level of detachment—or even a little sociopathy—to be intimate with someone else while still emotionally tied to your partner. I couldn’t do it.
2025-05-24 21:39:19
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Ruth :
Cheating definitely is to be blamed on the person doing it. I feel they are unhappy with themselves and try to find that happiness anyway possible and don’t care if they ruin other people’s lives.
2025-05-24 21:51:01
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Jen :
I have been cheated on in the past and sometimes would wonder why or what I did wrong. Truth is its not yourself its the other person that just is not on that same level and then you lose that connection totally! Took me years to understand that but when God takes one out of your life just remember that he/she was never the right one! Some are just not ready for that lifetime commitment and some soon regret not being ready! Good men/Good women are far and few in between so when you find that one you should love with all you have and that ultimately should be your best friend ❤️
2025-05-24 22:46:06
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Corinna :
It’s their own insecurity straight up! It’s their choice and bad behavior, had nothing to do with the one cheated on! If they take the time to talk and work things out with their partner or call it quits if it ain’t working, instead of looking elsewhere, they wouldn’t be a cheater. I have been cheated on and it’s something I would never ever do to anyone no matter the situation! And there are different forms of cheating. It ain’t just physical.
2025-05-25 14:47:25
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DaTgIrL :
Thrill of not getting caught
2025-05-26 02:32:21
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Terry :
PEOPLE USUALLY CHEAT BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT HAPPY AT HOME. IF THEY WERE HAPPY AT HOME, THEY WOULDN'T.
2025-05-26 03:15:23
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Shelly Ingram :
I’ve been cheated on and I still don’t understand why
2025-05-25 00:20:01
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@Holly Lynn❌ :
I agree we need to take accountability however why can’t we communicate before it gets to that point, breaking it off always hurts but I think cheating hurts more…
2025-05-26 14:35:32
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Ali :
People cheat for many reasons I think, I think the biggest reason is they are looking for something they can't find within
2025-05-25 00:27:04
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Michelle ❤ :
but they should leave you alone if they feel the need to be with someone else. I can respect the truth more than the lie.
2025-05-25 04:18:40
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mailladynan :
Lack of attention from significant other
2025-05-25 01:33:20
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Kim :
My strong opinion is if you are no longer in love or do not want to be with your partner any longer for whatever reason than have enough respect for them and yourself to communicate that and walk away. Cheating is just an easy out for immature people. Just my opinion 💖
2025-05-24 23:24:16
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Beachy1 :
I gave 100 % and gave my all in all we did together! He was the one always saying it was me and it was always him!! I was not perfect but I tried!
2025-05-24 22:29:51
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🇨🇦💜Lady Raven 💙🇨🇦 :
I think they are not happy with themselves and they are searching for something to fill a void, but no one ever truly know why unless they have walked a mile in that persons shoes
2025-05-25 13:39:01
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