@sharon.a.life: Both of us are realizing that 6 kids and a 16 year marriage and both of us working from home means neither of us has time or space to BREATHE. And maybe we just need a breath and our own bedrooms for awhile… or forever…and probably in the same house but maybe not…?? 🤷‍♀️🩵 And why don’t people talk more (ever) about marriages being wobbly sometimes and it being OKAY that it is? 🩵 #marriedlife #sleepdivorce

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haleyyhope
Haley 💜📖 :
Now you can get excited for a sleepover with no pressure or expectation
2025-05-25 04:27:30
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themonkeysmeow
Nancy :
One of the happiest couples I know has never shared a bedroom. honestly if I ever get married again I'm thinking about having my husband stay in a different house 😂
2025-05-25 05:21:32
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sacred.riot
Sacred Riot :
Totally saved my marriage! Been sleeping in separate rooms for three years and it’s sooooooo good.
2025-08-13 05:12:58
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thesentimentaldarling
The Sentimental Darling :
Why can’t you be who you want with your husband?
2025-06-19 17:34:04
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hismamajess
HisMamaJess :
It common for marriages w/one or more neurodivergent ppl to have separate sleep spaces. It saves many marriages
2025-05-25 06:15:29
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ahaup37
Angela :
my husband and I got a "sleep divorce' 2 years ago. never been happier!!
2025-05-25 04:21:48
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megzie846
megzy :
jealous.. can I ask how??
2025-05-25 08:11:11
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joyouswhimsy
joyouswhimsy :
You’re own space and the ability to get a restful, full night’s sleep
2025-05-25 04:54:32
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lioness.with.the.mane2
Lioness with a mane 2 :
I am extremely jealous, this is something I’ve been asking my partner but because he’s so fragile and he thinks it’s a rejection of him. Doesn’t realise this is to fill my own bucket.
2025-05-25 06:38:17
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itsme.ali365
itsme.ali365 :
I think deconstruction of EVERYTHING is inevitable. hoping for peace in every facet of life for you and me!!
2025-05-28 05:02:50
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better_midlifethannever
Polly (yes really) :
Honeslty I’d get married if they’d be ok living next door.
2025-05-25 04:33:40
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kayleigh_etc
Kayleigh Elizabeth :
bestie you gotta read A Room of One's Own!!
2025-05-28 02:34:06
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kaleidoscope_1992
Kale :
This should be more normalized
2025-05-25 19:26:41
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feelingsarepeopletoo
Katie :
I feel this. I used to have my own office but when my kids got older they needed their own space. I kind of have a semi-office in the basement but I hate it. So when everyone is home and awake my brain has explosions saying, “I need to be somewhere quiet and alone!”
2025-05-25 23:47:58
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samthebooknerd
📖 SamTheBookNerd 📖 :
I’m convinced that the happiest marriages consist of couples in there own bedrooms 🤣
2025-05-25 05:13:27
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stevienee
mamadragon :
one of my old coworkers had a 2 bedroom trailer cuz she and her husband gave up on sharing a bedroom 20yr earlier. I think it's important for couples to have one room in their house for each of them that's their own space. maybe it's a bedroom maybe it's an office. but it's your space and that's important
2025-05-25 23:27:44
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crazyrani247
Rani 🍉 :
my hubs and I have to share a room right now, but the separate rooms was something we discovered in the polyam space, and it's AMAZING. I usually got the master lol, cuz we all slept there, but I had the baby so I got the bathroom. hubs just wanted a space to play their games and hold all the reptiles.
2025-05-25 21:47:26
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pretendthisisacoolname2
Ter bear :
We share a bed, but I have the second bedroom as a 'craft room' and all my clothes are in that closet.... and my bathroom is the 'guest' bath. So technically we each have our own room and bathroom, I just SLEEP in 'her' bed. It's awesome.
2025-05-25 05:40:40
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heatherjhoyt
Heather :
My husband would be so hurt. We just squeezed a king size bed into our little room. Helped a lot! Aren’t you afraid of he feels rejected he’ll look elsewhere?
2025-05-27 13:53:05
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the_bluebird_girl
The_Bluebird_Girl :
My grandparents were together for 70 years before my grandpa passed, they always had separate bedrooms!!!
2025-05-28 02:42:30
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the_crew_collective
The Crew :
My fiancé and I sleep in different beds in the same room, I would love to have our own bedrooms someday but I feel that the sleeping in the same bed/same room is such heterosexual neurotypical propaganda. I have NEVER wanted to share a bed with a partner for longer than a vacation. Why is it so normalized while sleeping in different beds is “weird”
2025-05-26 13:38:24
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itskatyjay
Katyjay :
having my own bedroom is sort of the best and i was so scared at first BUT ITS SO GOOD. excited for you!!!
2025-05-25 04:47:43
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max.on.tiktok.123
Max :
My partner and I have been together since 2010 & lived together since 2012, & we've been able to have separate bedrooms (& sleep separately) for a couple of years now. It's genuinely been really great for both of us & our relationship. 🌿
2025-05-25 19:31:20
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brendadee1968
Brenda Dickerson :
I will never share my bed with anyone ever again
2025-05-25 07:12:27
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here4fun60
Here4Fun :
I'm trying to convince my wife to get out own beds but still in the same room. we have completely different sleep schedules and dying even like to sleep close because we get hot, but she's not on board yet. I'll keep working on it. we don't have enough bedrooms for our own yet.
2025-05-29 02:31:17
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