@swampamish: it’s my first time living, too, man. #mommyissues #narcissisticparent

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astronomologically
kt :
"as your daughter, I forgive you. as a mother, I could never."
2025-05-27 06:20:01
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tentativelytiny
B :
I have empathy for the child my mother was, the teenager she was, and the victim she was. I do not have empathy for the woman and person she still chose to become.
2025-05-27 16:33:49
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haliejean29
Z’s_Mama29🩵🤞 :
This to my core 🥲❤️‍🩹 my baby will never feel what I felt or go through the hurt I endured because of the person I loved the most..
2025-10-08 14:29:07
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shayy.hinton
Shayy Hinton :
whew you hit home early this morning 🥲
2025-07-23 12:59:03
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flashfrozen
Dorothy :
I understand her completely, but that is why I’m no contact.
2025-05-27 14:54:36
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pseudoprimes
vee 🪼 :
I resent her, but i also feel bad for her. She lives in an imaginary world where her behavior is normal, which means everyone is as wildly judgemental and passive-aggressive as she is and all love is conditional based on social value and she views every human interaction she has through that lens. What a miserable existence that must be.
2025-05-27 23:29:04
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breesbookrecs
breesbookrecs :
Daughters like this are the definition of dynamic individuals. Why do I have to understand the situation from so many points of view 😭
2025-05-27 17:14:24
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indiavanebooks
indiavanebooks :
I had empathy for her up until a certain point where I realized she continued to choose not to heal - that’s when I cut contact
2025-05-27 21:47:15
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daton488
daton :
as a daughter who's dad wasn't in her life cos her mother was so awful to him. I don't forgive that.
2025-05-31 09:25:53
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mishifishywishywashy
mish :
My daughter went no contact. I’m proud of her. I chose to dig deep. I understand we were all in the same house and I cannot lie, manipulate or gaslight myself out of the truth or back to my family. I held space, I validated. I took accountability and I apologized with changed behavior. I understood that it took years to do this damage and will take years to heal it. As my children forgive me I am able to begin to forgive myself and in turn my mother. This is the normal human response. Most people are unaware of the numbers of narcissistic people around us. Sadly no contact is the only answer.
2025-06-03 17:45:14
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sabrod1029
Sabrod1029 :
And that’s why my therapist is PAID!
2025-05-27 21:50:05
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dext3r_dogg
Rachel Simmons :
My empathy was gone after my girls started getting older. As a mother, I would never.
2025-05-26 19:42:45
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n1ch0leeee
Nic :
I love my mom. I just wish she was different when it mattered. :/
2025-05-26 19:34:18
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kedie004
kedie :
quite the opposite, when I became a mother - it made me resent my mother more. how could she do that? my daughter is my heart outside my body. I'd die for her. why was I not that for my mother?
2025-05-28 11:13:43
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mundanemostly
MundaneMostly :
The day I could see her as an abused child is the day I knew I’d healed. I’ll never talk to her again but I’m sorry she’s had such a hard life.
2025-05-28 00:01:42
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karinayanelle
karina :
Girl I’ve run out of patience
2025-05-30 09:16:29
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allisonratliff
ActuAlli…son :
Every oldest daughter 😂
2025-05-28 23:21:15
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the_dude_abides_95
Elysium_asylum :
I don’t have empathy actually. She won’t have access to me for the rest of her life.
2025-05-27 11:32:22
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adlehsa
🏳️‍🌈 Lily Adlehsa 🔮 :
Nope, not me. My empathy for her died when I was 12 years old and I realized she would never view me as a real person separate from herself and deserving of love and basic human decency.
2025-05-26 16:25:57
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_rootedingrowth
Jen ☮︎ :
& also as a Mother, WTF WAS THAT?!
2025-05-28 02:20:35
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wayyyytooloud
KCJ :
I said this to my therapist and she said “UGH I have been trying to guide you toward just a liiiiitle bit of forgiveness and patience with yourself and you give it that quickly to HER?” - the frustration was deeply warranted 😂
2025-05-27 18:08:16
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shadowphax
shadowphax :
my mother has DEEP mental scars for her horrible mother so I don't blame her for being terribly unstable. but it still sucks.
2025-05-27 16:56:20
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ashleyrose163
Ashley Rose :
my mom lost her husband (not my dad) I didn't know how she felt. Until I lost my soulmate in the same year she passed. I was always angry of how she raised me 1/2
2025-06-12 08:59:07
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user11794127745462
yourmom :
I love her to death and I'd never ask for another mom but I wish she would have treated me better as a kid it's her first time living but me as well and I wouldn't I'd ever do that to my children (we have a great relationship now ❤️)
2025-05-26 15:51:01
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emgamblee
Em :
Is this the Burlington skyway
2025-05-31 02:32:20
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