@mackenzieherman: Replying to @Sarah| Makeup+ Lifestyle They’re kind to everyone else because you make them face the parts they try to avoid. You aren’t the exception. You’re the mirror. #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #emotionaltriggers #relationshipdynamics #toxicpatterns #anxiousattachment #innerchildhealing #datingadvice101 #pushpulldynamic #emotionalunavailability #HealingJourney #knowthepatterns #traumabonds #avoidantpartner #selfworthmatters #reclaimyourpeace #attachmenttok #avoidantvsanxious #narcissistvsavoidant #healingfromhim #tiktoktherapy #relationshipcoach #healingvideos #breakupwisdom #attachmenttokcommunity

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antoniobreez
Antonio Breez :
Because of avoidance respect everyone but their partner. They claim they love their partner, but their partner receives the most abuse, unfortunately.
2025-05-27 02:14:30
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nmxlii
Natalie :
AVOIDANTS are incredibly exhausting. They push you away so much and yet when you finally say, “fine” they wonder what they did. It’s emotionally, physically. Mentally and spiritually exhausting
2025-05-27 05:01:20
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mau863104
mau 🇵🇭 🇺🇸 :
But they be friends with exes . They even keep roster exes 😩
2025-05-27 01:49:48
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crazyryry3
moosicbyr :
Once you get too close to an avoidant, do they compartmentalize into a “not-safe” category? Is it possible to become just friends with them again after you’ve broken that vulnerability barrier?
2025-05-27 15:43:54
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iamyeshua007
Victor Von Doom :
what about she wants to be friends with me after she discard me?
2025-05-27 02:25:46
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kathrynhoffmann4
Kittykat :
This was so hard to see or hear about. I was never let into their world so I could meet these people. He always told me all the wonderful things he did for everyone else.
2025-05-27 05:03:47
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walking_in_the_clouds12
Heather :
And they don't like themselves so they rather be with people that they can mask with
2025-05-27 01:49:46
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zepedrotiktok
Zé Pedro :
She broke my heart
2025-05-28 22:29:33
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chwissycardinal
chwissycardinal :
How do we give them space so we can be come friends again after a relationship? Without them forgetting us? Losing interest in us?
2025-05-27 06:23:42
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chrisbaumann612
Chris Baumann :
Do avoidants eventually come around and be “normal” with you or is this something that is life long?
2025-05-27 13:54:37
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angiemro29
Angie Rivera :
He told me he could be friends with all of his exes but me
2025-05-27 03:15:41
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cathleen616
cathleen Bell Harper :
it makes me sad because we’re just friends but I feel so much of this
2025-05-27 06:55:54
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circle_c_farms
Josh Campbell 🇺🇸🦆 :
This was a big problem. Could plan and do things with everyone else but me or make plans with “ friends “ on dates we were supposed to be celebrating together 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️🫤.
2025-05-27 01:54:26
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soozeeqsays
⚓️🏴‍☠️🌻SuzyBruisy🦋👻💀🥷 :
It's like you read my mind. This is exactly what was going through my head today
2025-05-27 01:47:20
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flannigan449
Summertime Ruby 👠 💃🏻 :
I’ve raised this concern w/ my avoidant ex & I would only get a BS response of, Idk. So frustrating & painful as if he doesn’t think I deserve the truth. We’re going on 4 wks of no contact. It’s for the best I know, but I still mourn the future together that I thought we had ahead of us.
2025-05-27 03:43:27
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porkkanamuffinssi
porkkanamuffinssi :
Why was/is he talking to his previous ex but me he seems to hate?😅
2025-05-27 09:28:02
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mjill3682
Jill M :
How do you bring up the conversation and set your boundaries?
2025-05-27 01:44:46
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bigmomma929
Wendy Nance :
This was my first relationship since my divorce that I had fallen head over heels during the 6 week honeymoon phase. He chased me. Made plans. Called me. Laughed with me. I felt like a giddy teenager. and then he ghosted me. I've been crying ever since. That was October.
2025-05-27 04:24:14
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elwiraphotography
Elwira Photography :
that's the saddest part
2025-05-27 02:32:57
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blackhairmom40
Blackhairmom40 :
It’s crazy, because I’m going through a divorce with an avoidant, just like this. 12 years of marriage and 2 kids. And this is just “okay?” I genuinely cannot wrap my head around it 💔
2025-05-27 21:03:20
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laraferreir.a
Lia :
hey, what is your perspective on the avoidant moving on very quickly?
2025-05-27 12:59:52
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jessgalaxy
✨Jess✨ :
Will fall for someone else while they still are in with with you?
2025-05-27 10:57:33
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blondeoverboard
BlondeOverboard :
a friend could call to say they weren't feeling well and he'd drop everything for them. i could be sitting next to him dying and he wouldn't take his eyes off the tv.
2025-05-27 05:03:26
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sean41134
Sean :
Raised this one and gave me assurance that it was not the case but actions were different. Hence rebound was soooo easy.
2025-05-27 02:26:04
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