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birdie_draws2 :
I get that when I talk about stuff that happened with my mum to my friends. I love her, but describing some of the stories has made friends dislike/hate her. Plus I always try to rationalise what happened, because as I get older, I don’t want to paint her as a one dimensional villain because she’s not, she a human being with a complex history. But if I talk about certain stories, my best friend often jumps in to remind me that just because her parents had been not-so-good, didn’t justify the treatment I received. It’s hard and it makes me feel guilty to talk about her like that even when I’m being objectively truthful about a situation.
2025-05-27 18:17:07
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Random_rug.rat :
Just put someone you care about in your shoes, would you still feel like it’s justifiable for someone to do that to them?
2025-05-27 12:07:40
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Detective Smores :
same. but then I start making excuses for the other person and I know that's not good either so I guess I let it be
2025-06-08 09:48:39
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hum of hope :
I'm that person who always takes side of someone I love even if they're wrong. On the other hand I really hate it when they don't do it for me because I thought love was unconditional, whether I would be right or wrong. But I'm just ranting in a comment section lmao
2025-05-27 23:28:31
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🌙 :
For me I have felt like that with certain individuals because they most likely have gaslighted or manipulated me, I also come from a past where I’ve been betrayed a lot so i tend to be more susceptible to feeling guilty when I know my feelings are valid
2025-06-01 18:04:19
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☆🚦Jayfeather_TheMedCat🚦🪻🦋☆ :
Yes, one hundred million percent. This is how I feel telling my online friends about my mother - no one irl thinks she's bad, so surely if they knew her irl they'd like her, but the way I'M talking about her has made her look bad.
2025-05-28 05:27:13
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Sarcasion :
As someone who has dealt with this and still struggles against it while in therapy, the root of feeling like that is shame. Shame in yourself and unworthiness that your needs and experience matter too. You are allowed to be in pain. You are not always the bad guy. Your pain is relevant and matters and isn’t less than anyone else’s just for the fact that it’s yours.
2025-05-28 18:38:13
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Myrice :
Reasons arent excuses. Everyone who has hurt you had a reason. That doesn't mean it will nor should hurt any less. They still hurt you at the end of the day.
2025-05-27 19:13:55
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Sunny~☀️ :
I tell my friends things my family tells me and stuff and I always feel extremely guilty afterwards 😭
2025-06-26 07:07:58
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Cerise :D :
:( yeah
2025-05-28 01:03:10
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Drak :
Or like I manipulated the person agreeing with me somehow and well I mean what if I misunderstood or accidentally lied about it
2025-06-19 18:25:24
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Miyo<3 :
you and me both
2025-05-28 18:45:28
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dog.stray_ :
Should I repost?
2025-05-27 12:33:47
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st. ݁ᛪ༙ nick ?? :
Yes, but I think it’s more about like you’re a separate entity regardless so they’re watching for your person with empathy so it can move forward and not be held back is all, the other party doesn’t always need relevance when it’s ur life
2025-05-27 12:20:37
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1987,The Mangle :
No one takes my side 😔
2025-05-27 19:20:11
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I LOVE MY WIFE!!!! ♡ (*>∇<)ﾉ :
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2025-06-08 13:45:35
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Cocoa :
Right there with you pookie
2025-05-27 11:23:33
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jun/arlo!! [he/they] ☆*.･ﾟ✧ :
NO BECAUSE ITS THIS EXACT FEELING- i always try to downplay my feelings & experience.
2025-05-27 19:30:56
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IL_Giona :
That’s so unhealthily relatable
2025-05-27 21:35:22
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(๑>◡<๑) :
@^_^ BRO THIS IS TOO REAL THAT LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME EXCEPT THE PERSON WHO HURT ME ACTUALLY DID SMTH BAD
2025-05-27 19:43:11
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JustALittleJackStauberFan :
@🌺 yo ahorita 💔
2025-06-12 07:24:04
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｡☘️ °. moss⭑.ᐟ :
yes. i would.. explain it. but that would be like.. emotional vomit. so i wont, but oh. oh, oh, ohh does it hurt.
2025-06-02 07:43:14
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Shay :
🤣🤣🤣🤣then 🤣 you 🤣 hate 🤣 yourself 🤣 for 🤣 being 🤣 “manipulative” 🤣 in 🤣 your 🤣 eyes 🤣🤣🤣
2025-05-27 20:12:30
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