You’re talking about me here. I’m independent, have my own house, investment property, car, etc. I’m not married nor do I have a kid because the quality of men in the dating pool is poor. I am not willing to settle for a man below my standards just for the sake of having a man. I will wait for God to bring me the right man…until then, I’ll just continue to work on myself, spoil my family and travel.
2025-05-29 14:30:55
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Lelo Mloto :
I honestly no longer see the purpose for marriage.
2025-05-27 14:39:51
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Neon10 :
They lack being present in a relationship to begin with.
2025-07-13 04:29:13
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zamanzima :
Wenza I Forex enga Forex 😂 hawu
2025-05-27 17:11:02
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Just B :
Ladies if you don't have a kid stay away from a guy who has a kid I hope I'm Cristal
2025-06-01 18:23:45
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PumpkinP :
Yohhh, guys these days?! You’d find a great guy, has a good job, not a drunkard, no ‘baggage’, goes to Church, doing fairly okay… But uyabona that he doesn’t have the “provider” mentality. Instead he’s happy to be coming to your house, barehanded, expecting to be treated like a king he is not, 5 meals a day, no value add at all. Ha.a yhoh, something’s got to give 🥹
2025-05-28 02:12:00
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PHOENIX 🌸 :
I met a guy this month, he is a nurse, I liked him but he drinks every weekend, has depts, always with friends at tarvens, grooves until bo AM.. I felt like Noo, this is not my cup of tea, and told him to fix himself first. Then mby we can talk
2025-05-28 19:29:39
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LondiePhummy :
Spitting facts only
2025-05-27 17:38:50
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Zintle Tsipa :
This is Soooo true. Amadoda anamhlanje yinyakanyaka guys. Abanadirection
2025-06-07 12:49:51
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palesa_ya_metsi :
You get married to someone with 3 kids..he dies you still have to maintain the kids.If y’all divorce,he goes and claims spousal maintenance
2025-05-28 05:24:52
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nomzamodube_ :
The 50/50 concept changed the dating game forever
2025-05-27 16:32:56
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winniempho3 :
thank u my sister...ur a very wise woman....Thank u for the adviser
2025-06-16 15:17:37
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Aus Lebo❤ :
Marriage these days it's financial trap... imagine getting married to a man who needs your financial assistance to support his kids with bby mamas... being single is a flex
2025-05-28 01:45:29
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Nelisiwe Music Offic :
Abafana namanje ngoPrincess Sophia
2025-05-27 14:14:39
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GALADRIEL :
And they like to say they miss the old days; goes to show they want women to be financially dependent on them not realising that the very same grandmothers they wish we could be, advise us to go to school and work so we don’t rely on men for money. So we worked hard and become independent, so can bring something substantial in a marriage. But now the men are required to move with the times and realise that them working isn’t enough. They actually need to be good people, considerate and nd contribute mentally and emotionally for a home to succeed. Men refuse to evolve!
2025-05-29 10:56:59
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💯🎀pal3sa_sweet🎀💯 :
I blame parents... because our parents were focused on their daughters and not teaching their sons morales
2025-05-29 15:36:34
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nonhlanhlamxakaza :
umshado can be such a burden with a partner that lacks vision
2025-06-14 20:35:44
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T :
Abafuni futhi ukuya eSontweni ngoba they are always drunk and hung over.. So vele ngeke a vuke. Umuntu o phuza every Thursday to Sunday. 😩.
2025-05-27 17:38:43
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Gumede.S.K :
I think as men instead of busy making noise, excuses and pointing fingers with the other gender we should just listen and learn that as a man in thish
2025-06-01 09:43:26
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Prince. L Hlongwane (Mqhele) :
Who did that to men?? Everyone is born clueless of everything except natural instincts. The rest of everything that is needed as qualities to fit-in in the society standards is taught. In a society where women are a majority, who then has to account for influence and teaching of standards and norms?? Moreover, the system itself which thrives on a woman privilege, is against men from birth to death... As a man, I want to account too but may I please not account for things that are out of my capacity and responsibilities 💯
As men, we love you, we need you. We hate hurting you, killing you and defending ourselves from our beloved women. We wish for peace and harmony. We are not animals by birth instead we're converted by force and that transformation & transition hurts too.
Ave sinithanda makhosazane, kunina sifisa abafazi, amadodakazi, abalingani, abakhwekazi ngisho noGogo imbala. How are we make better??♥️♥️♥️
2025-05-28 10:49:27
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Bongadubethecoach :
True, as men we need to close up the gap that has been created.
2025-06-06 19:07:00
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Livhu_LeBoo :
abafana ba manje bah selfish nje😫🤚🏽finish and klaar!
2025-05-27 12:46:22
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MEL_SA :
you own houses and cars..that's what a Normal adult do. there's nothing usual or fascinating about it.
2025-05-28 12:09:24
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Sharon Jenny :
Very profound ♥️♥️🔥
2025-05-27 18:30:52
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Ms Dee❤️🩹 :
first time l hear a young woman like I talking sense 🙌🙌🙌🥰🥰🥰🥰
2025-05-31 15:25:08
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