@anna_hirata: I’ve been thinking about this topic for weeks and weeks & still struggle to put it into words. If he can’t stick up for you when his friends and family are cruel to you, he will let other cruelties slide in many different ways. He will not be there for you to navigate failures & challenges you encounter in your own life because he just wants you to “get over” everything.
honestly this is such a red flag that people excuse or "talk out" and then they've been stuck for years or they have kids and then teach those kids to be nonchalant about their mom/friends/partners as well. I will have that conversation twice. once to point out the behavior, because I do believe in meeting people where they're at, and once when I cite it as a reason in the breakup. it should be second nature to stick up for your people!
2025-05-27 22:27:25
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SaskySugar🇨🇦 :
I’m..literally in this situation at the moment with my partner and my dog and his family’s opinions on how I raise her
2025-05-28 00:30:39
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Abigailee 🍉 :
Tom Schwartz from Vanderpump Rules is the perfect example of this!
2025-05-27 21:29:29
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Kate :
I needed to hear this today. Thank you
2025-05-28 20:51:19
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hotmessholly89 :
This is so real. If they don't stick up for you they can become violent 10, 20 years down the road. And you'll be half destroyed.
2025-05-27 21:18:12
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