@seventywaves: no kids = nursing home #gettingolder #over50 #childfree #LifeAdvice #nursinghome #gettingolder

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productofyourimagination
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As someone who’s worked at nursing homes throughout college- 98% of residents were those with a husband and children, yes as in plural 😩. The majority were never visited and if they were it was for holidays for a solid hour. When we asked the family about the residents life before the nursing home I kid you not most of the time they’d have nothing but wonderful things to say about their parent. I say all of this to say that I laugh when women and men make snarky comments like “oh you’ll end up at a nursing home alone.” towards women who chose to be child free when in reality, it’s them who will more than likely end up in a nursing home the second they need assistance with even the most minimal task. I witnessed it for 4 years. The child free residents were very rare and they’d typically stay at their own homes getting home care assistance.
2025-05-27 19:28:17
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the.adhd.queen1
TheADHDqueen :
Even if I have kids, it’s not the nursing home that scares me, it’s the street!! 🤣
2025-08-08 08:50:53
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janieb50
janieb50 :
This is terrifying to me as I don’t own my own home or have any family left no kids or husband I’m alone with not much in finances so what will happen to me
2025-08-19 01:10:52
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handobabe
Abila :
You’re sooooo beautiful and young for your age.💕
2025-05-28 17:52:25
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ladybroccoli_
Lady Broccoli :
I'm 37 and have to take care of my aging parents (now it's only my dad sadly) and I'm already thinking about going to a nursing or retirement home when the time will come. I would never ask my children to go through what I've gone through. It's brutal.
2025-05-31 06:08:54
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juliestl1992
Julie connors :
I’m 32 and don’t want kids and I am hoping by the time I’m old they will have like some AI robots who can help me with tasks at home. I don’t think that’s a crazy thing to think for in 50 years
2025-06-20 19:35:17
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sn3akylynxx
liam :p :
i absolutely adore you love, you’re my micro celebrity ❤️
2025-05-27 18:50:54
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goldmermaid007
julie :
in home care
2025-06-06 02:08:03
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sahabnezz
Sahab Nezz :
U look fine for ur age
2025-06-05 15:40:38
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loverboy99.9
$$LOVERBOY999🇳🇬 :
you are the Queen of all beauty 💖🥰👸
2025-05-28 14:25:01
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sam_31337
Sam :
Just because you have kids and do the very best for them, doesn’t mean they will be there for you at the end. My aunt got cancer died while her son didn’t even come visit her. We were there for her in the end she did everything she could as a single mom for him.
2025-07-03 16:59:33
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makalah111
Makalah :
a community of elderly would be next to staying with family, company, Dr, nurse, on hand etc...perfect really....just not enough of those communities...just old cold nursing homes, where left in rooms, and disinterested staff, I hear.
2025-05-27 19:45:04
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kaydlove2.0
Kay D :
Modern medicine and a professional nurse.
2025-07-24 15:25:46
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thirtywaves
Brittany Allyn :
Love this ❤️
2025-05-28 04:13:16
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tlax87
tlax87 :
why would we want to live by ourselves.. I want to live with friends in a nursing home..
2025-05-28 03:41:13
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nicoleyapping
nicoleyapping :
Senior homes are so legit these days! Like summer camp all over again 🥳 I don’t have kids or a spouse either either
2025-06-24 22:15:02
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imaginarydruid
imaginarydruid :
Plenty of people with kids are “destined for nursing homes” because most kids don’t grow up to be medical professionals!!
2025-06-24 13:34:07
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thejennpep
JennPep :
It is so strange to me that people with kids have the expectation that they take care of them when they are older yet have the audacity to call people without kids selfish.
2025-06-21 16:06:51
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dylannwilliams1
Dylann :
Wow, Bethenny. Wow
2025-05-29 01:35:44
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jol879707
Jo 🌻 :
I have kids and I know they're not going to take care of me.
2025-06-22 05:10:11
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notoriousrbp
Rachel 🥥🌴 :
My grandma is 90 and still living in her own house. It is definitely possible.
2025-07-01 04:45:35
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viviancolon1
Vivian Colon :
48 and childless here. Wherever your journey take you, I which you the best, lots of peace and happiness. Be well!
2025-06-17 16:29:40
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joy_pressley
Joy_Pressley :
You look so young no wonder !!
2025-06-17 03:56:17
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