@tcburkej: Men who are secure don’t get upset when women say all men

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the_clown_outside
☆ Tɦҽ Lσcαʅ Tιҽfʅιɳɠ Bαɾԃ ☆ :
“Men of quality don’t fear equality”
2025-05-29 10:25:21
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megakittyrawr
MegaKittyRawr :
my wife will start ranting about men and I'll join in with her lmao
2025-05-28 17:47:10
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ms.kate1990
Ms. Kate :
True courage, true masculinity is so attractive ✨
2025-07-22 04:28:12
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erika1004
🥀Erika🥀 :
My boyfriend yellin YUP when I say it
2025-05-28 16:52:16
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goft_cer
goft_cer :
WE DON'T GET OFFENDED BC WE KNOW THEY NOT TALKING ABOUT US 🗣🗣🗣
2025-05-29 04:12:11
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mike__y7
MIKE :
Real masculinity is leadership not dominance
2025-05-28 22:21:06
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cocunuthed
CocunutHed :
if you get mad, thats who theyre talking about
2025-05-29 16:47:06
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q.u.i.a.r.a
quiara🌞 :
"if the shoes fits, wear it" and some of yall getting upset bc the shoe fits 😭🤓
2025-05-28 21:30:17
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allieam_
Allieam :
Spoken beautifully! Thank you for posting
2025-06-07 08:18:35
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damber828
Amber BamBer :
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE MEN IN THE BACK 👏🏻💯👏🏻💯👏🏻💯👏🏻💯
2025-05-28 18:46:23
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zac_garn
Garn :
Don’t take advice from this dude.
2025-05-28 15:49:53
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alanood720
alanood :
Preach king
2025-05-28 17:11:48
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seanclark231
@Enmagaming25 :
Or maybe they should say what they mean? You know if you not speaking on all men don’t say ALL men
2025-05-29 03:57:00
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theseasponge
Squid :
“When your identity & ego are accustomed to privilege then equality feels like oppression”
2025-05-28 19:15:42
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umbern
UMBER N :
Frankly, it is my guy friends who warn me about men. Men understand men.
2025-05-28 22:14:41
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_firedragan_
Dragan :
As a man it used to hurt hearing it. But thank you for helping explain it for those guys who don’t fully understand what’s actually being said.
2025-05-28 16:59:24
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the_big_cheezee
Thebiggestcheeze :
It has nothing to do with ego🤡 it has to do with equality… if a woman says “all men” anyone who disagrees with her is “insecure” but when I say “all women” I’m a misogynist 🙄… women can say all kinds of foul shit about men and it’s fine but I’m evil for saying shit back?
2025-05-29 04:21:19
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fwtx_omar_
Omar :
Yeah no it’s still a big generalization. Don’t say all if you don’t mean all. Words mean things. The whole video was in refrence to some men, heck I’d grant even most. But not every. So don’t say all 💀
2025-05-29 04:33:41
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faq_check
faq_check :
Nah. If it’s not all men, then why say it? I’m analytical… I look at data. If the data shows 100%, say “all,” if it shows greater than 50% say “most,” of it shows less than 5%, say “few.” Words have definitions for a reason. 🤷🏻
2025-05-30 20:12:42
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caroline.royal
caroline ☀︎ therapist :
“real strength means being vulnerable” !!!! yes 👏
2025-05-28 23:51:55
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gnostic_sybil
Gnostic_Sybil :
My only problem is it teaches people to generalize a group, like isn't that what we're trying to get away from?
2025-05-28 17:58:28
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acdub317
A.C. :
If you know in your heart that you’re not one of those guys, then you’ve got nothing to worry about. If anything you should be just as mad at those guys as the women are.
2025-05-29 06:47:33
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darksouls2lover
DarkSouls2Lover :
How does agreeing with the generalization "It's all men" contribute to a loving, patient, and kind community? Not only do men need to reach out to the women who are suffering, but women need to reach back at the men for help, and try to meet them halfway in order to be cooperative and prosperous. Saying phrases like "It's all men" ultimately just drives men away or leaves them feeling attacked and defensive. It has nothing to do with one's security as a man. Generalizations are crude by nature. If I were to say "all women drive poorly," then that would obviously be offensive to the women who drive very well, and most women probably wouldn't want to listen to the point I would be trying to make. I think it's ridiculous to expect a man to just accept such a malicious identity. I am not saying that we should just pretend like every man is great and does no harm, but I think when we do find men who are great and do no harm, then there should be some differentiation between them and the harmful men. If there was no difference between a good man and a bad man, and they were just generalized to be "all men," then how can we possibly differentiate quality men and know where to target our efforts in ending toxic masculinity and rape culture? I think it reinforces toxic masculinity when we expect men to just sit down and be quiet when a woman claims that everyone who has the same gender as him, is a rapist or an assaulter. The whole reason why men rape is because they have been raised to never be weak, and rape is an act of power or even strength. Every statistic taken regaurding rapists has shown that rape is not about sexual pleasure, but it's about power dynamics. Men who feel they have no identity or have failed to reach their identity, can only go back to the only identity men have. Which is power. I think if we stop demonizing men, continue to raise awareness in a healthy and constructive way, stop doing all this gender war bullshit online, and most importantly, if we start to redefine what it means to be a man and allow men to be weak, then I think we'd have a really good shot at eliminating rape culture. If you think you have a better idea, I'd love to hear it.
2025-05-29 11:51:23
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