@shanboody: From 28 to 37, Xosha was all about finding the relationship or gripping tight to the one she was in… even when it was killing her. Now? She just doesn’t care. 👉🏾 Yeah, maybe there’s a boyfriend or two in the future. 👉🏾 But if marriage or a “forever partner” never shows up? She’ll still be good. That’s the difference between living for others and living for yourself. That’s what it means to divorce yourself from the expectations. From the pressure. From the performance. "I’m not betraying myself just to become the version of me that you like." Whew. Let that sit. #LoversPodcast #SelfLiberation #GrownWomanEnergy #RelationshipClarity #LiveForYou #HealingInProgress #NoMorePerforming #EmotionalMaturity
Do I want to marry? Yes. Do I have doubts that it will happen, Yes. Can I be okay if it doesn’t, sure.
2025-06-04 13:38:10
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VIEWTIFUL RICKEY :
I can relate to this and I kinda hate that I can relate to this. It’s like if it happens for me that’s awesome but if not…it’s cool. Also damn, I want it for me though.
2025-07-29 00:50:57
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Kavivi :
No it’s not about getting approval. It’s about having someone to live your life with and not being alone…
2025-07-29 16:29:33
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kenyettakammrr :
Exactly what I'm saying too
2025-06-04 22:18:46
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Syon :
Xosha is so gorgeous, my god 😍
2025-06-03 18:23:37
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L 🖤 :
I’m 32 and kid less and can finally say I’m in that same space. If it happens cool if not…I’m still ok baby
2025-06-04 02:28:57
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Carcia 👑 :
💯 Facts! Now that I’m older , I’m ok with not getting married.
2025-06-24 13:13:28
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Modfinsta :
I’m glad I’m learning this at 27
2025-06-03 20:18:28
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Thato :
How’s her name pronounced?
2025-06-04 17:18:37
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Stephanie jc🇭🇹 :
I divorced myself at the rip age of 27 . Been dating since I was 15 . Titi is tired . I’m 32 and I’m just so focused on what makes me happy .
2025-06-04 03:19:35
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Eboni Bynum717 :
Exactly . A relationship or marriage is no longer the priority.
2025-06-03 22:47:23
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Monica Greene :
At 40, I came to this revelation also after so many years of chasing an idea or expectation and always ending up on the wrong end of the stick
2025-06-04 14:55:44
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D J :
The change in her voice says otherwise. 😢
2025-07-28 13:46:34
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MissesMoore :
This resonates with me.
2025-07-26 16:25:43
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Destiny Venus :
She looks great. I wouldn’t guess 40 at all
2025-06-04 15:45:53
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Ash :
I didn’t realize this relationship was in her 30s. That’s so unfortunate
2025-06-05 14:25:27
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yully :
I had a cute couple who were in their late 80s who met on the internet and got eloped and were always so in love and they would brag about how they met due to it not being a normal way to meet 🥹
2025-06-06 02:57:39
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batforlillies :
this is so real
2025-06-04 00:55:22
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Lavender Lady :
Self care and inner peace come first . If it happens , great but he’s not taking my peace from me 💜
2025-06-04 04:04:35
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Princessa :
She’s gorgeous
2025-06-04 20:30:18
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Cake & T :
I ❤️this
2025-07-14 22:21:00
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sarahdjarniebrown♏️ :
I wish ny ypunger self, had an older woman to talk to 😞😞😞😞. As I get older i now reflect.
2025-06-03 18:19:23
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user2571587012633 :
The gauntlet of being in your 30s and watching everyoneeee get married and have kids is so scary
2025-07-28 19:59:53
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sweetnloww :
Yeah but ir would be nice to be loved and adored
2025-07-27 18:01:32
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Kay 🦂🌻🇯🇲 :
29 & divorced myself this year. Choosing to be single & child free 😊
2025-06-04 04:12:35
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