@shanboody: From 28 to 37, Xosha was all about finding the relationship or gripping tight to the one she was in… even when it was killing her. Now? She just doesn’t care. 👉🏾 Yeah, maybe there’s a boyfriend or two in the future. 👉🏾 But if marriage or a “forever partner” never shows up? She’ll still be good. That’s the difference between living for others and living for yourself. That’s what it means to divorce yourself from the expectations. From the pressure. From the performance. "I’m not betraying myself just to become the version of me that you like." Whew. Let that sit. #LoversPodcast #SelfLiberation #GrownWomanEnergy #RelationshipClarity #LiveForYou #HealingInProgress #NoMorePerforming #EmotionalMaturity

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every1luvskai
iak :
Do I want to marry? Yes. Do I have doubts that it will happen, Yes. Can I be okay if it doesn’t, sure.
2025-06-04 13:38:10
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rickeydanger
VIEWTIFUL RICKEY :
I can relate to this and I kinda hate that I can relate to this. It’s like if it happens for me that’s awesome but if not…it’s cool. Also damn, I want it for me though.
2025-07-29 00:50:57
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kavivisays1
Kavivi :
No it’s not about getting approval. It’s about having someone to live your life with and not being alone…
2025-07-29 16:29:33
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kenyettakammrr
kenyettakammrr :
Exactly what I'm saying too
2025-06-04 22:18:46
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sighbaby_
Syon :
Xosha is so gorgeous, my god 😍
2025-06-03 18:23:37
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hopedreamdesire
L 🖤 :
I’m 32 and kid less and can finally say I’m in that same space. If it happens cool if not…I’m still ok baby
2025-06-04 02:28:57
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_carcia_
Carcia 👑 :
💯 Facts! Now that I’m older , I’m ok with not getting married.
2025-06-24 13:13:28
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modfinsta
Modfinsta :
I’m glad I’m learning this at 27
2025-06-03 20:18:28
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thato4412
Thato :
How’s her name pronounced?
2025-06-04 17:18:37
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msjc64
Stephanie jc🇭🇹 :
I divorced myself at the rip age of 27 . Been dating since I was 15 . Titi is tired . I’m 32 and I’m just so focused on what makes me happy .
2025-06-04 03:19:35
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eabynum
Eboni Bynum717 :
Exactly . A relationship or marriage is no longer the priority.
2025-06-03 22:47:23
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moniluv_84
Monica Greene :
At 40, I came to this revelation also after so many years of chasing an idea or expectation and always ending up on the wrong end of the stick
2025-06-04 14:55:44
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didisouth20
D J :
The change in her voice says otherwise. 😢
2025-07-28 13:46:34
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missesmoore
MissesMoore :
This resonates with me.
2025-07-26 16:25:43
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hatshepsut.des
Destiny Venus :
She looks great. I wouldn’t guess 40 at all
2025-06-04 15:45:53
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ashbash972
Ash :
I didn’t realize this relationship was in her 30s. That’s so unfortunate
2025-06-05 14:25:27
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yullyxo
yully :
I had a cute couple who were in their late 80s who met on the internet and got eloped and were always so in love and they would brag about how they met due to it not being a normal way to meet 🥹
2025-06-06 02:57:39
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batforlillies
batforlillies :
this is so real
2025-06-04 00:55:22
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lavenderlady1971
Lavender Lady :
Self care and inner peace come first . If it happens , great but he’s not taking my peace from me 💜
2025-06-04 04:04:35
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calllmeduchess
Princessa :
She’s gorgeous
2025-06-04 20:30:18
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cake_and_t
Cake & T :
I ❤️this
2025-07-14 22:21:00
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sarahdjarniebrown
sarahdjarniebrown♏️ :
I wish ny ypunger self, had an older woman to talk to 😞😞😞😞. As I get older i now reflect.
2025-06-03 18:19:23
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cortitaaa
user2571587012633 :
The gauntlet of being in your 30s and watching everyoneeee get married and have kids is so scary
2025-07-28 19:59:53
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monicavanessaa
sweetnloww :
Yeah but ir would be nice to be loved and adored
2025-07-27 18:01:32
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kayrevoli_
Kay 🦂🌻🇯🇲 :
29 & divorced myself this year. Choosing to be single & child free 😊
2025-06-04 04:12:35
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