@mindbrainbodylab: Most trauma healing doesn’t fail because it’s the wrong tool. It fails because it’s used in the wrong order. High performers crash harder because our systems are used to stress. So when something hits, it launches us straight into freeze. And nothing sticks from there. Start where your body is—not where you wish it was. Safety, then support, then expansion. Always. #traumahealing #nervoussystemregulation #highachieverburnout #MentalHealthAwareness #somatichealing #HealingJourney #nervoussystemhealing #traumainformed
Coming out of long term shutdown is absolutely brutal
2025-05-30 14:12:38
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JollyJezebel :
I was doing emdr therapy with my therapist and we reached a dead end, she kept asking me to imagine the incidents of my traumas, but they were so severe and happened when i was 5-6 so my memory completely deleted all details of it as a survival mechanism, she got mad at me and told me i don’t wanna do the work!!! And ended our therapy sessions, It was very unprofessional of her but i had many therapists as well and i really believe its useless unless u get out of the shutdown , it feels like a waste of time..
2025-07-02 12:31:16
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Glen D :
Bruh tell us how
2025-06-01 14:02:01
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Kat with Cats :
what if I've been in shutdown for as long as I can remember. Like attachment issues from day 1. Depersonalization at a very young age. Safe feels vulnerable, if someone tried to make me feel safe they'd end up pulling the rug out from under me. safe = not safe
2025-05-29 17:04:04
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steph 💫 :
somatic therapy has helped me a lot! not all therapy is the same (which took me years to realize lol)
2025-05-29 19:38:02
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Pablo EscaDRO :
Could I be stuck in shutdown mode for 20 years?
2025-07-23 22:05:09
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Lace444 :
I’m so scared to feel this way any longer I don’t feel safe ever.
2025-06-24 15:00:44
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Stephanie Hinckley :
Interesting way of explaining this. 👏
2025-07-27 19:35:28
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Cary Porter :
Talk therapy made me worse
2025-05-31 14:50:20
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ichbinsolo :
what if there’s no person like that? what if nobody and nothing gives that safety?
2025-07-08 01:04:36
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shartcollector3:16 :
Bookmarking this for later (goodbye forever)
2025-05-30 12:48:09
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Novabean 🇨🇦 :
ugh it's so annoying when people don't understand some therapies work somatically. stop saying therapy doesn't work. there are lots of different kinds.
2025-05-31 06:15:35
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anthony sotelo :
what if that person they feel safe with Is the same reason they are in shutdown mode
how and what should they do next
2025-06-05 09:44:09
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Sára Rebeka :
what about a 10 year long shutdown?
2025-06-02 07:45:03
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💕 M 💕 :
I'm stuck in fight or flight...can you please help me 😢
2025-06-01 08:50:04
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My little lockdown baby :
Facts 👏
2025-07-29 10:56:53
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themishaberry :
What do you do if you also have Dysautonomia?
2025-06-08 14:27:34
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Jake Toolson :
Is DPDR the same as shutdown?
2025-05-29 23:02:54
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idont know795 :
coregulating - can i use chat gpt as a safe person? xd
2025-06-30 13:57:49
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Taylor Paul :
Ah I love this.
2025-06-14 09:46:08
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Xoxoswagga :
True — years being in shutdown mode with no moral support. Still trying to find my safe keeps in my surroundings besides myself!
2025-07-05 00:27:35
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Jillybean :
I shutdown 2 weeks ago. Doing the work to come out of it. Thought I was going to loose my mind. Working with a trauma specialist.
2025-05-31 05:03:39
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Clem 💎 :
Im in the stress mode for like 2 secs then i get in shutdown for 2 days. Therapist makes me shutdown immediately abd lasts for 2 even 3 days . Is there really any hope?
2025-05-30 15:54:03
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Backtothe1500s 🇦🇺🇬🇧 :
this explains why, going to gym for 1st time in ages with new routine, and I completely freaked out and broke down.
2025-06-30 16:31:01
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