siminbadri :
My husband did nothing for me. Even our weddibg was for his mom in Pakistan while I grew up in America and he did too. My parents only had 4 kids while she had 6 but his mom was selfish enought to force my wedding over there while I got no thing no gift but all our money was spend on all his family gifting them including buying weddibg jewelry for his mom like bangles other than showering them with money, clothes, watches, cameras, perfumes, clothes, the list goes on. They robbed everythibg from me parties begore weddibg and after includibg money and what I had rights. My soon to be ex did nothing for me instead always too and we supported everyone and got them out of counties. Even when we did for some reason we still had to pay for his brothers bride, lawyer, furnitures, weddings, engagements parties, kids, their birthdays, money to get people out of countries, etc. I know we spend over 1 M on his family and he cheated the whole time with 20 people at the same time. I was slave to him and his family raised my boys alone. He used all his work even our business as excuse to go on vacations and cheat. At the end, he hid money and robbed me, my kids and my parents and my brother. Giving up a lot and saying live only matters is not good enough. You have to have him do some things and traditions and spend some money to respect you. I wanted and asked for a little but they forced me especially him because they pushed him at the end I never got respect. So not doing anything, enough, or more than you deserve gets you disrespected at the end.
2025-05-30 14:37:50