@vanessaandxander: 🚨 New research just dropped on the real reason behind the “O” gap—and it’s not what you think.⁠ ⁠ It’s not about women’s bodies.⁠ It’s not about trying harder.⁠ ⁠It’s about **focus.**⁠ ⁠ Men tend to prioritize their own 💦 (and feel supported in doing so), while women are more focused on their partner’s pleasure. That difference? Researchers call it the “0rg@sm pursuit gap.” ⁠ When women feel their pleasure isn’t prioritized, satisfaction goes down—even if they do finish.⁠ ⁠ Want better, more satisfying secs for everyone? It’s time we rethink whose pleasure gets to be the main event.⁠ ⁠ 💬 What do YOU think about the pursuit gap? Have you felt this dynamic in your own relationships?

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Friday 30 May 2025 16:49:20 GMT