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bignosebinch :
“that’s all they had to offer” just made something major click for me
2025-05-31 00:06:10
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amber akilla :
people are good to you because they’re good and bad to you because they’re bad !!!
2025-07-17 19:57:43
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Licia✨ :
I saw a tik tok a while ago that said “your fixation on the why is keeping you from accepting what is” and that hit me like a brick just like this video.
2025-06-03 16:21:06
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Francesca :
You don’t need proof for permission to feel hurt. Your feelings are valid enough, trust them!!
2025-06-01 23:54:45
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BlueLatteDream :
I think this finally healed me. The why is irrelevant.
2025-05-31 03:55:52
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Queerliberation :
And I feel like a lot of people (me included) try to find the reason behind the disrespect in an attempt to potentially stay in the situation instead of just LEAVING!
2025-06-01 21:07:22
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ji ❀ :
literally! it’s because they wanted to not because of anything you lack!
2025-05-31 16:16:07
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Rachel Moto :
IVE BEEN SAYING THIS ahhh thank you nobody else gets it
2025-06-05 03:19:51
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Marg :
Always searching for “understanding” EVEN when it comes to self awareness, can slowly become a habit of intellectualizing emotions. It’s a cop out. Just feel what ur feeling. There’s no cheat code to feel better when you’re hurt.
2025-06-03 14:47:09
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skittles 🥴 :
i THINK you’re absolutely correct
2025-06-03 23:23:38
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ChanelTheDon :
Realizing this cuts all the noise in the process. Ruminating in the need or idea of clarity when you were done wrong is really the thief of joy
2025-05-30 20:08:35
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De$araé 🌹 :
I agree! People can only show up for you at the level they’ve healed. If all they’ve ever known is chaos, they might not know how to receive love — not because your love isn’t enough, but because they don’t recognize peace when they see it. Growth and healing are personal journeys, and until they choose to do that inner work, all the love, communication, emotional intelligence, and awareness you offer may go unnoticed or unappreciated. But that has nothing to do with your worth. Their inability to receive love isn’t a reflection of your value — it’s a reflection of their wounds.
2025-06-02 04:15:44
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crybaby ✮⋆˙ :
yes 1000% THIS!! learning to detach yourself from others actions and trying to find meaning and justification behind why people do the things they did to you, they simply just did it and that’s an answer enough
2025-06-01 21:36:08
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LEE ★ :
For the longest time, I needed to know what made you act so carelessly, so cruelly. I thought the why would heal me, that if I understood it, I could accept the behavior. But in reality, the most important question I could ask myself was: Why did I STAY?!? What role did I play in my OWN suffering?!? Once I started taking accountability for me, that’s when I began to reclaim my peace and my power.
2025-06-03 22:36:40
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Whatever :
She cheated on me because she is a cheater. Thanks. I needed to hear that.
2025-06-01 16:43:17
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Shannon :
This is so true! When you try and find a reason within yourself for why someone treated you a certain way, you take away the accountability from them and put it on yourself. You cannot control how people act, only how you respond to it!
2025-06-02 13:54:54
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sonnyemmie :
no more stabbing ourselves with our thorns when we r bloomin roses!!!
2025-06-03 18:17:04
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aurora <3 :
i think.. you make a great point
2025-07-23 17:45:43
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Maddy :
I had to leave bc his “accountability” had no action. He was simply acknowledging that he was treating me bad. I get sad when i think about how much i didnt deserve the disrespect)-: im choosing to heal! He was avoidant… BECAUSE HES AN AVOIDANT!!! need to repeat this everyday
2025-06-05 02:35:07
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Raven Symone :
‼️‼️‼️‼️exactly and this is why I don’t believe in closure… the hurt/betrayal is ALL THE CLOSURE you literally need
2025-06-04 23:28:36
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kez :
I think that phrasing of “that’s what they had to offer” is such a great perspective as it neutralizes the possibility of attributing a narrative, other than simply accepting the situation as is.
2025-06-03 06:54:04
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Emilie Mendoza :
Learning that when a man does me wrong it has nothing to do with me and everything to do with them and who they are as a person has truly changed my life. I ZONT NEED TO NO WHY. It happened and that’s it. ITS DONE NEXT
2025-06-01 19:26:04
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Cydni :
My page really said FOR YOU! 😩😂
2025-06-03 17:48:06
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ITS_RSAYMA :
So...you didn't hold my hand...or anything..but thank you
2025-06-03 01:43:47
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