it's a grief I can't explain... that the thing my heart desires most may not be part of God's plan for me.
2025-05-31 05:11:22
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Honeybath :
I absolutely love the way he asked the question. At 30 I have made peace with it. I would love to be a wife and a mom, but it seems God does not want that for me 🙌
2025-07-05 19:10:24
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Carolina Escalante :
Same exactly her answer
2025-07-26 02:59:26
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Jordan Kozicki :
Why are there so many of us feeling this way? Why are so many of us not finding our person? Ive never heard couples or people who are my parents age struggle with this.
2025-05-31 16:17:33
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Whitney Martin 🇨🇦 :
i’ll never be at peace with it, i’m mourning and grieving the life i always wanted but didn’t get
2025-06-24 03:00:02
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Hương T. Nguyễn :
I waited and wanted to be married but had no hope until I was 40 when I was ready to give up and feel comfortable being alone then my husband showed up. I knew right away when I first saw him, I know he would be my husband :-) We married one year after that day :-)
2025-05-31 11:15:03
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Ashley Ann 🌻 :
It’s like mourning someone I’ve never known
2025-05-31 18:23:02
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Ivana :
I’m 48. I haven’t had a date in almost 10 years. Not a kiss. Nothing. My heart was so broken, that I couldn’t do it. How I feel now? I don’t know. But I trust in God and His plans. I wish I’ve had kids, a family. A normal small life. It hurts sometimes. But I’m in peace with my situation, Cause ai don’t depend on my own understanding. I trust God and His timing. ❤️❤️❤️
2025-07-06 15:54:25
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Jennifer :
I've learned to just come with terms with it tbh. Ive had bfs and never worked out unfortunately. I wanted to get to married to the last two I had when I was a little younger but we just argued too much in the end and I had to come to terms with it and being single this long has changed my perspective on things..I learned to love myself..yes it gets lonely and I have friends time to time till I meet the one again but yea you just have to have trust in the Lord and keep positive knowing there is a plan in place and everything will be ok. it's not easy sometimes but you get through...
2025-07-28 00:04:49
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Manda :
It hard because all your friends are moms and wifes and it hasn’t happened to you. You are always the childless or never married friend. In my 20s I was like ok maybe in my 30s and then 40 hits and still nope never married and no kiddos. Ive come to the realization it will never happen.It’s hard to think about because I’ve always dreamed of being a mom and a wife and I know it will never happen so i have to just deal with it. I just sit and wonder all the time what my purpose is and why not me. Why was it never my turn. I always heard your time will come it will happen and I’ve waited and waiting and nope never my time. So yeah it wasn’t the cards I was dealt this lifetime. Life goes on.
2025-06-01 06:20:35
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justshamahere :
You go from working so hard to finding someone >grief> possibly settling> grief again> and after many cycles…acceptance.
2025-05-31 15:04:26
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Lady C 🇿🇦 EC :
it's a deep sadness I can tell you that much 😞
2025-07-05 20:10:36
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loyal✰crystal✞ :
I’m 42, never had a boyfriend or been on a date. I think i’m going through perimenopause now. Let me just tell you, i feel incredibly alone and it’s one of the hardest griefs i’ve gone through. But i have God and His will for me means more than my own for myself. 🥲
2025-05-31 23:46:36
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JJ :
It feels like an unfair added pressure, bc we want to take our time/date/not rush things, but there’s this timing thing.
2025-05-31 05:49:41
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Figgy :
It just like hurts my heart. I feel so unlovable and have truly just come to terms that I won’t have this and may never be loved romantically.
2025-05-31 05:17:38
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Bye :
45 this year and kinda gutted I didn’t meet anyone or have 1 child - but life is what it is!
2025-05-31 13:33:28
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missy :
I’m just happy I never created a family with someone who wasn’t worthy.
2025-06-14 22:49:37
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Miss Coollette O Studio :
It’s crazy how millions of women are all in the same situation. Maybe we don’t have kids because of a bigger purpose. That God has a purpose for use and children will get in the way of what He wants us to do. And that God can feel our pain but he
2025-07-08 00:39:27
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Kelly H :
Silent grief. I’m 35 this year and I’m grieving a life I don’t think I’ll ever get at this point .
2025-07-07 20:31:11
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Goldilocks-gymgirl :
48 never married, no kids, no regrets♥️
2025-05-31 17:12:15
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Rooted🌳Maverick👠 :
It's hard, it's painful.. At 40 I wonder if at this stage I would ever be a wife, a mom.. And then you say a silent prayer to God.. Let me not lose the best years of my life before I get to experience all that.. It's hard
2025-07-05 17:50:02
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Dani 🆘 🇺🇸 :
You mourn the life you thought you wanted, but start celebrating the life you’ve built and your future self you’re becoming.
2025-05-31 05:47:37
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Rachel McDonald9183 :
Both question and answer were so respectful and thoughtful
2025-06-01 23:02:25
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Rich Aunty Nikz :
There are days when you have peace and days when you think, "Wow, so it really hasn't happened". It's definitely hard, and a journey in trusting God and just handing it all over to Him.
2025-07-05 23:36:07
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girlaboutleicester :
I spend nearly every day fighting between wanting to be in a relationship and have a family and trying to live my best solo life.
2025-07-06 20:25:00
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