@tearsof.thesoul: When someone knows they deserve better, but still stays with the one who breaks them, that’s called cognitive dissonance. It’s the pain of knowing the truth and still choosing the lie. One part of them whispers, “I’m not happy.” The other clings to, “But I love them.” And in that tension, something heavy grows. They start to question themselves more than the relationship. They convince themselves that love is supposed to hurt, that maybe they’re asking for too much, that staying is the brave thing to do. But love that breaks you isn’t love. It’s fear—of being alone, of starting over, of facing the grief that comes with letting go. Still, there comes a day— when the pain of staying finally outweighs the fear of leaving. 📘Poem by @TheFallenPoet Illustrations by @crumbsandgubs & Anne Magill Poetry book “Between Heaven & Earth” by @the.fallenpoet is out now.
Tears Of The Soul
Region: US
Saturday 31 May 2025 13:05:00 GMT
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fhee :
stay until you hate them.
2025-06-02 07:53:21
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chrisminanugget :
it destroys you
2025-06-02 16:25:28
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5DAYS :
stay until you hate them.
2025-07-28 06:44:46
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SKYFALL :
I want to leave
2025-06-02 09:06:05
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🇮🇹BiancaGaglianoBenzo🐶🐱🌸 :
7 years …
2025-06-12 17:07:09
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maja★ :
the timing is crazy
2025-06-22 20:48:22
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Owlsarenotwhattheyseem :
I let go, but I'm ruined.
2025-07-07 04:09:29
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mimi0430_ :
I’m scared to leave. What if i can’t find someone better? It’d break my heart to see the next girl get the fruits of my labor.
2025-07-04 08:48:55
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Belinda :
Thank You ♥
2025-07-28 16:23:50
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adri.life.love.peace :
It destroyed me and now I chose to face my fears. I have nothing left inside. Pray for me please.
2025-06-03 17:59:52
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aliciamearschampi :
Narcissistic dream cycle…..
2025-06-07 15:49:15
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HillbillyGem :
What is it called when you stayed so long and woke up one day, no friends, no family cause they all betrayed and took, the there is no place to go?
2025-06-01 05:05:26
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Joseph R. :
This is it :) she would definitely be happier without me here.
2025-05-31 20:48:54
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🍃notpd🍃 :
timing is crazy..
2025-07-02 22:53:31
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lphilbert :
20 years. 20 freaking years in that fantasy. 🥺
2025-06-01 17:54:01
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Terry Rouse :
This!
2025-07-28 02:34:41
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JB :
I haven't left due to fear of not being able to afford it CA is so expensive and even though he doesn't fully provide I'm not financially stabled 😔🙏 and I still care I dont know why
2025-07-11 08:27:51
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Pinto Bean :
True
2025-06-01 14:03:24
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Citlally 🩷 :
Me right now :/
2025-07-01 18:23:16
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jennifermustdie :
best thing i did was leave
2025-06-13 06:49:53
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giwta_ :
I left him .. it hurts but I’m strong and I didn’t deserve all this things that he did
2025-06-10 19:28:24
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Gyuda :
Never more!
2025-06-02 08:17:46
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CelticBonsai :
Cognitive dissonance isn't really the same thing as making a bad choice. Sometimes, the person is fully aware but still choosing to be with the one who hurts them.
2025-05-31 16:51:04
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isa <3 :
it’s so hard to go.
2025-07-06 08:49:48
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𝔄𝔩𝔢𝔵𝔦𝔞 🎱🍒🐆 :
Oh
2025-07-24 03:55:43
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