@kiaabrera: It’s a very human sentiment to go through when you feel that hint of disappointment when you pour your heart to something or someone only to be met with indifference or silence. There’s a concept called The Reciprocity Gap: the space between our natural human need for acknowledgment and the reality that not everyone operates with the same communication style or emotional awareness. I’m not talking about keeping score, but about feeling seen for your efforts. When you don’t feel seen, your brain doesn’t think “they’re ungrateful”—it thinks “did I matter?” But listen. It’s completely normal to want acknowledgment. It doesn’t make you needy or demanding. It makes you human. Your need for recognition isn’t too much. It’s evidence that you care deeply.

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penielzoemercado
Neo Merc :
Whew… I feel so called out—lol—but it’s true. Sometimes we have these unspoken expectations, hoping others will value our efforts, but they treat it like a transaction. The hard truth? You’ll never be fully appreciated in the wrong place.
2025-06-20 11:12:51
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catgurl24
Catgurl :
I didn't know I was looking for this until today, thank you 😊
2025-06-07 22:55:47
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mamanibasti
May Ann :
On point..ouch!!!😢😢😢
2025-07-09 08:36:18
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keshin2003
Shin :
I feel like I’ve been attacked 😭
2025-06-04 15:22:12
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jujidy
jujid🏳️‍🌈 :
true🥺 kinda sad really
2025-06-04 15:32:40
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monlopez53
Mon Lopez :
I'm learning a lot from your videos. Thank you.
2025-06-17 10:32:06
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wambairem_thetherapist
Wambairem :
I love your explanation in the caption as well. My question though, when you've answered that question for yourself, what do you do then?
2025-06-04 17:15:28
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mikey_gt
Mikey GT | Triathlon & Finance :
well said. too bad i cant repost to others
2025-06-29 12:52:30
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bananah___
Hannah :
trueeee 🥺
2025-07-08 05:33:04
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lisa.but.not.from
Lisa but NOT from blackpink :
Exactly 😭
2025-07-09 13:30:19
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anrdlsrys
Anir Delos Reyes :
wow 😳
2025-07-10 12:02:46
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iampixelmage
iampixelmage :
Just wow.
2025-06-04 15:23:50
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charactermain34
Fritz Lee :
ako ata ito 😅. and I have nothing to say. I wanna be numb nlang.
2025-06-04 15:35:01
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unsaidthought699
Unsaid thought :
😭
2025-07-11 23:30:12
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rum_dy
Dy143 :
🥺🥺🥺
2025-07-11 09:18:13
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jeeeykeeey10
PJ :
💯
2025-07-09 23:59:14
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neilpascual
Neil Pascual :
☹️
2025-07-06 00:36:18
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chinju072
chinju :
🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
2025-07-04 15:33:48
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theres.a2
there's.A🐉 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-03 08:09:55
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maria.lourdes.ber76
Maria Lourdes Bernardino :
❤️🥺
2025-06-12 11:24:25
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mariathelmalopez
mariathelmalopez :
🥺
2025-06-07 21:47:00
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voicezzingerz
John Paolo Susmeña R :
no regrets on caring too much. that's my act of service. at some point, you'll get the sweet spot. it's trial and error.
2025-06-25 19:22:12
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yongz88
bluegray :
🥹🔥☄️🫡
2025-06-04 15:44:09
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