@anxiouslyalej: An avoidant man will fumble a good woman… and regret it for the rest of his life. BUT: He’ll never say it out loud. He’ll watch your stories from a burner account. He’ll check your profile at 2am. He’ll replay old memories in his mind like it’s a movie he can’t re-shoot. Because you? You became The Phantom Ex. The one who left… and never came back. The one who loved him without conditions, but still chose herself when he couldn’t show up. Here’s what most people don’t understand about avoidantly attached men: They don’t fear losing you - they fear needing you. Because to need you would require vulnerability. And vulnerability to them? Feels like danger. So instead of leaning in, they sabotage the connection. Not because you weren’t enough. But because the closeness triggered all the wounds they never healed. And when you finally stopped chasing… when you stopped filling the gap… when you chose peace over potential… that’s when he felt your absence. And that absence will haunt him quietly for years. Let this be your reminder: Missing you isn’t the same as fighting for you. Regret isn’t the same as growth. And silence… is still a choice. 📌 Save this if you needed the reminder. 💬 Comment “I’m the one that got away” if this hit. 📲 Send this to someone going through a breakup #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #datinginyour30s #datingcoachforwomen

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Friday 06 June 2025 00:03:03 GMT