@_afiqrosly: To all husbands and husbands-to-be out there, I’ve got something to say: you MUST respect, take care of, and be responsible for your wife. Why am I saying this? Because I’ve just spent 48 hours by my wife’s side as she battled through intense labor contractions. And in the end, she had to undergo a C-section. Allah has the greatest plan for all His servants, one that no one can ever change. My wife’s screams, her emotions, the exhaustion until she had no more strength left to push are still vivid in my mind. And honestly, this is why women are the ones chosen to carry and give birth to a child. If it were up to men, we’d probably be throwing tantrums and losing it completely in that labor room. The blood that kept coming out… and every 30 minutes, the midwife would come in to check her dilation. Honestly, it felt like I could feel the pain too—those fingers trying to reach in, trying to measure and open the path for the baby to come out. It was 1cm for the first 24 hours, 2cm in the next 8 hours, 6cm after 2 more hours, 8cm after another 2, and finally 9cm—right before they decided to proceed with a C-section. Allah truly knows what’s best for His servants. Throughout it all, my wife kept saying “I’m sorry” to me, over and over again. She just wanted the pain to stop. You know what broke me as a man? When she said, “Sayang, I’m sorry I couldn’t push enough 😢” Man….. after going through strong contractions every 2 minutes, trying so hard for a normal delivery, and then ending up in surgery and you’re apologizing? That hit me like a spaceship straight to the heart. I broke down crying. Alhamdulillah, our baby maintained a steady heart rate the entire time, even though she had already dilated to 9cm. And yet, every time I open X and see women sharing stories of their husbands being neglectful, abusive, or just plain irresponsible—it makes me angry. As men, we are supposed to protect our women. Yes, we work hard day and night, and that’s our sacrifice. But women? They endure so much more — pregnancy, labor, childbirth, and even periods. Please—RESPECT WOMAN

Afiq Rosly

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Friday 06 June 2025 04:51:04 GMT