@caffeinefeind: i just hung up cuz i actually was abt to cry bro. but i swear i don’t even wanna GO anymore #naturalhair #4chair #femininity #blackwomen #suburbanblackgirl #mississippi #xyzbca #blackgirl
It should be affecting your view of your friend long term instead
2025-06-06 12:49:38
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ambee :
It wasn’t feminine of her to try and make you feel insecure
2025-06-06 10:47:01
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xann.y 𖣂 :
and u still calling that ur friend 💔
2025-07-21 19:32:03
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monie 🌟 :
block that “friend” love
2025-06-06 11:10:07
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karrah :
curly hair is the most feminine thing to exist, it lasts longer on our heads and we have a much less rate of developing male patterned baldness, it also imitates nature
2025-06-06 08:13:58
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char :^) :
natural hair IS feminine- she was socialized to think otherwise because of the ✋🏻supremacist culture we're all surrounded by and she chose not to deconstruct it and perpetuate it onto u. that is not your friend
2025-06-06 13:34:03
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Kenz 🌸 :
getting out of all white environments for my final year of middle school (and so forth) positively altered my self esteem SO much.
2025-06-06 07:20:31
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SHAYBHAY :
THAT IS NOT YOUR FRIEND NIECE!!!!
2025-06-06 05:12:49
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Zay 🧚🏾♂️✨ :
Girl that is not your friend. Any one saying that you look like a man is trying to tear you down. Run! Don’t stay around someone eager to insult you!
2025-07-21 21:22:21
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Bri :
Your hair is gorgeous! That is not your friend
2025-06-06 05:52:51
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#1 Nana fan :
ex friend right?
2025-07-21 18:12:12
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maya :
Bro why do they always say this 😭😭
2025-06-06 05:52:09
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mars :
DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM! your hair complements your feminine and delicate appearance!! your hair in this video looks so full and girly it reminds me of Iridessa from the tinker bell series ❤️
2025-06-06 07:11:26
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gaia 💌 :
one time i went to middle school in cornrows and my white friend said i looked like a female boxer :/
2025-06-06 13:18:47
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reefermadness1221 :
normalized mysogynoir.. im sorry love your natural curls are beautiful
2025-07-21 00:03:06
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👾 :
Being told I look like a boy with an Afro 😕thankfully I grew out of the natural hair≠not feminine phase
2025-06-07 16:34:32
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Bama :
Unfriend then pls.save yourself the trouble cousin!!
2025-06-06 17:56:57
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Tiara :
im confused what's more girly than a cute curly puff ball??? you need to be around more black people i really learned to love myself and my hair when I moved from Boston to Chicago
2025-06-07 12:06:37
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liv :
they need to go through a process of detachment from white supremacy and eurocentric beauty standards🙏 don’t let their insecure projections affect your happiness, beauty and confidence gorgeous💕💕💕
2025-06-06 09:42:45
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alice :
that’s not your friend :( you look very feminine and beautiful i promise they are being strange
2025-06-06 07:35:41
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positive mindset :
tell them the same thing?
2025-06-07 01:31:30
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bebs :
natural hair on blk women ≠ masculinity
2025-06-16 17:57:19
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sexyliar :
you literally look beautiful and feminine and delicate. that is not your friend!! that is a crazy micro aggression don’t let this change ur view on yourself
2025-06-06 07:56:01
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Annika :
hmmm either talk to her and explain the microagression and how its ignorant and harmful. see how she recieves this info.. will she accept with open heart/mind and not only apologize but do better. OR will she get defensive and argumentative? if its the latter, absolutely drop her as a friend.
2025-06-07 01:05:19
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stealyasaja :
U need to tell ur inner child she’s always been beautiful despite the worlds ignorance then u need to cut that girl off
2025-06-07 16:11:44
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