I would have paid him with goods. Like, maybe, a few toilet rolls, a couple of bars of soap, and a thank you note
2025-06-16 18:44:55
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Katy Davenport :
NTA. That's wild. He offered to cover the meal. I don't care if he paid in gift cards and coupons.
2025-06-16 17:10:50
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ashhh. :
I would have just left within the first 10 minutes of sitting alone.
2025-06-16 17:09:19
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Soapsfreeman🍁 :
Nah, dude was 45 minutes late?? If you’re the person asking someone out and choosing the place you’re paying, unless we agree to a split in the moment. No bill = nothing to split.
2025-06-16 19:06:53
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HypeWilliamz :
Block that man and move on
2025-06-16 23:24:49
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Heather M Jordan :
It is not customary to pay anything back after our first date. This is wild no NTA so glad you walked away from this hellfire.
2025-06-16 17:16:26
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Robin :
I would have given him dozen homemade muffins and said, here is the value of the meal. 😅
2025-06-16 19:41:03
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sunflower_hazed :
The way I’d laugh in his face “sir your projecting you didn’t even pay”
2025-06-16 17:41:36
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Al :
If you pay for a certification exam and fail the exam, you don’t get money back on the voucher
2025-06-16 22:03:57
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Ginger Witch 🏳️🌈 :
i’d send him something i was gonna donate to a thrift store anyway
2025-06-16 17:40:03
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Gwendolyn Fraser :
In David Rose's voice "That's a write off"
2025-06-16 17:41:22
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LeeLea 🇦🇺 :
NTA. 1. He was at work & he squeezed a date 🚩 2. He left her sitting alone for 15 mins 🚩 3. He didn't pay for the meal, it was free 🚩
She doesn't owe him anything.
2025-06-16 21:12:15
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zivile001 :
well he wasted your time, so you don't owe him anything
2025-06-16 20:39:11
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melissaphobia :
it is NOT customary to reimburse someone for your meal because you're not having a second date. That's petty and rude. Etiquette is the person who asked the other out is who pays, unless otherwise agreed upon. If he's only willing to pay bc he expects something more, he's sleazy, and women he's going out with are probably paying for their meal at the end of the first date or paying him back because they want to end things with no reason for him to contact them again.
2025-06-16 18:19:41
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Irene :
so he tried to make a profit off a free meal? respect the hustle, but not paying you to double dip😅
2025-06-16 21:22:02
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unstable nd witch :
Send him a dollar and call it good 😂
2025-06-16 17:29:06
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Marnes :
So if it was the other way around and he didn’t spark can I get him to mow my lawn for payment? Dating is not a currency exchange.
2025-06-16 20:44:08
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Debs :
Even if the meal wasn’t free you are not obligated to pay for the meal if you decide not to see him again 🙄
2025-06-16 23:59:00
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nicole :
I find it hilarious anyone would even entertain the idea of paying someone back the next day for a meal.
2025-06-17 11:47:18
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jenjen8675309 :
Nobody is talking about the Tony Soprano activity here?
2025-06-16 18:31:57
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EmilyIsTrans🏳️⚧️ :
no im here early, i can't form an opinion yet
2025-06-16 17:05:46
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Ashlee Ann :
So he basically wants you to pay him for the date/meal….thats a big ole’ nope from me!
2025-06-17 01:39:59
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IbeHagrid :
Working on a first date is so interesting 🤨🤨
2025-06-16 19:18:40
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Bella81 :
I would also go back to the place they ate and tell them he's making money from the free meals they provide. I appreciate a Good haggle but he's ripping everyone off
2025-07-11 09:03:25
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nicolieeolie :
Welp half free is NOTHING so tell em that lol
2025-06-16 22:33:28
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