@modamensch: some feelings are centering feelings, and are, in many cases, meant for the journal! #socialmedia #sociology #psychology #behavior #petpeeves #CapCut
Also, no one is obligated to listen to your trauma either. I was doing my post work scroll before heading home and go flash banged by a girl going into graphic detail about her SA, something I don't handle well with hearing about
2025-06-10 15:06:18
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crumbellious :
I feel really bad when this happens to pregnant people or people who just gave birth. I've no doubt that pregnancy loss and infant loss are horrible, but you need to speak to a therapist about that. don't dump the trauma under someone's video talking about their excitement about being in the third trimester
2025-06-10 18:18:16
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Smallscull :
I see now why YouTubers in the early days would warn people about the comment section
2025-06-12 19:59:16
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Juno :
honestly I feel like the mental health movement has gotten so co-opted by people who think metal health acts as a get out of jail free card. The internet has made it so much worse by feeding I think into honestly everyone's worst attention seeking habits and it's really created an awful environment of self obsession and zero accountability
2025-06-22 09:24:24
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HungOver^ :
but what if i don't feel bitter and unhappy
2025-07-17 07:07:59
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Soph :
I literally just saw a video saying you should floss and the top comment was "I CAN'T floss because my teeth are crowded. My parents couldn't afford braces because I grew up in POVERTY" like ok buddy
2025-06-10 16:48:51
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RAIKKU :
I like strawberry ice cream! ”Uh huh so you hate vanilla ice cream and want all vanilla ice cream eaters to suffer???”
2025-06-10 15:05:08
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Ruby_30x :
Honestly the comments under videos about happy couples, dad's, or even bread are fucking insane. People need to stop getting so personal when not asked on here
2025-06-10 16:53:21
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Mm.nectarine :
Like that store bought pesto girl.. I remember when everyone was just trauma dumping on her for saying it was crazy she didn’t like it. Like leave her alone 😭
2025-06-10 18:14:01
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Kassadin :
Comment sections when people post nice things about their parents are always outrageous for this kinda stuff. "Had dinner with my dad on Father's Day :)" and majority of the comment section is "OH YOU HAVE A DAD? MUST BE NICE."
2025-07-03 11:18:27
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Nikki 🎠🍭🌈 :
I had to stop some of my friendships because I would share something my parents did for me (I'm very close with them and have a happy relationship) and it would suddenly turn into trauma dumping about their relationship with their parents :/
2025-07-02 05:08:21
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James K Ballard :
If you've seen the Monty Python "Four Yorkshiremen" sketch, we're basically just doing that now on a societal level
2025-06-12 17:11:34
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Colonel Shartass :
People on the internet live in chronic misery. The idea that someone could be living a happy life without being constantly miserable fills them with a rage that rivals a supernova in terms of power.
2025-06-11 05:38:51
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🥀🦇Dilynn🦇🥀 (🇨🇦) :
Say it louder for the people in the back!! I get it that we all have little things we may envy about others, but that’s never an excuse to take it out on a stranger, or even a friend for that matter
2025-06-10 15:04:09
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Kallias 🆘🏳️⚧️ :
There’s also something to be said about how most people online have this strange belief that everything they see was MADE FOR THEM, so they believe they have a right to act this way as if they were being personally attacked. It makes me wonder if the internet was a mistake
2025-06-11 12:46:16
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Dogfinch 🐾🦴 :
when someone gets a puppy and the comments are full of “my dog just died” like come on
2025-06-10 22:23:19
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Michelle-Louise 🇬🇧 :
Too many people think the internet exists to babysit them and it's beyond ridiculous 🤦♀️
2025-06-12 07:34:18
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wormy🪱 :
People say this journal thing a lot. I journal every single day, it’s been 160 days in a row and I honestly really genuinely reccomend it. When I journaled less frequently I felt a pressure to be deep or beautiful in my writing. Now that I have a daily journal I absolutely write things that a year ago I would have tweeted. It’s improved my life so much! I can’t imagine not doing it every day now
2025-06-12 00:41:12
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Schrodingers Autism :
considering that the whole point of spcial media is to have second-hand experiences, it's kinda weird that some people are so resistant to those experiences being pleasant ones
2025-06-10 18:39:46
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MysticMess :
Literally like any post about family too “I love my dad!!! He’s the best” “well my dad left me when I was kid what about me”
2025-06-10 17:48:56
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E🌅🎺🐗 :
My brother used to do this a lot when I was a kid and that was difficult to unlearn. Glad I did though because it totally kills the vibe.
2025-06-12 14:47:44
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Peppa_Pimp :
I saw a cute post asking people to post silly pictures of their pets, it was supposed to be wholesome and someone commented “I can’t because my dog is dead”. 😒 Like man, I know losing a pet is hard and I empathize but what other reason was there to say that under a post about posting cute dog pictures?
2025-06-12 05:55:14
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Vampirelove :
I lost my mom this year and on Mother’s Day. I stayed offline because I knew I would see Mother’s Day shit and would cause me to have multiple negative emotions.
2025-06-11 01:00:08
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tranny devito :
I see this so often with cute couple posts' comments. it's literally ALWAYS full of ppl like "if u look in the background u can see me [weird sui ideation]" like I GET that ppl are lonely but it feels so self centered to me
2025-06-10 18:33:19
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Salem :
Everytime I saw those positive “do you think we’re mom/dad and kid in another universe” videos and comments were filled with people trauma dumping
2025-06-11 13:12:44
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