@kiaraivory: Day 11 of 30: Unlearning the Nice Girl. Cancel the plan. Yep. You said yes out of obligation but you’d rather relax and get some rest. Honor yourself and rest! If this is something you struggle with, click the link in my bio to download the nice girl detox kit. I’ve packed it with tools and resources to help you thrive without people pleasing. #kiaraivory #NiceGirlDetox #peoplepleasing #notnice

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fluffgawd
Cheeks :
I feel like this depends on who the person is. Part of being in community, is sometimes doing things out of obligation.
2025-06-11 23:54:42
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itsnaomicapri
Nae 🩵 :
Whewwwww I just did this for an obligation that would take up the rest of my year, and I feel SO FREE!!!
2025-06-11 12:46:37
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chandralake
Chandra “Land” Lake :
This was really good! I have struggled previously canceling
2025-07-18 15:20:29
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bluugems_
Bluu Gems :
soooo working ?
2025-06-13 10:07:56
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high.priestcess
Arielle Fintail ✨💙 :
You must want me to lose my job…
2025-06-12 17:21:53
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phoe5nixx
GamerMama :
This is prime indicator of Nice Girl syndrome, whew!! I'm a recovering nice girl 5+ yrs. When I started canceling, I rewarded myself: new book, Netflix, bubblebath, tume with ME. Now, I am so much better at not accepting in the 1st place. When I slip. I do NOT berate myself.
2025-06-11 13:16:55
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maegup
casamelo🪭 :
Yesss😩 and stop showing up for people out of obligation when they don’t show up for you!
2025-06-13 07:41:05
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carliethepilot
Carlie The Pilot :
I’m here for this series.
2025-06-14 07:18:25
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lizzielynette
elisabeth⁷ 🪴 :
i just did this and felt so bad! thank you for the timely reassurance 😭
2025-06-11 20:15:31
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deetheleo817
deetheleo817 :
I was going to say unfortunately… I don’t have any more time to miss at work
2025-06-13 13:06:49
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locsbydev
Dev :
This is a gem!
2025-06-17 16:46:05
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catgirl72nopet
Catlover72 :
Yes my therapist said to pay attention to how I feel when I say “yes” to a request and if it’s not good, then I need to turn around and say “no”
2025-06-13 11:04:23
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danawhissen
Dana Whissen :
Thank you for this! Excited to check out all your other videos. I feel guilty all the time but I’ve finally reached a point where I can talk myself out of it!
2025-06-12 17:32:50
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camthefounder
Cam The Founder ✨ | Wellness :
oooh let me tap in to this series
2025-06-13 14:25:00
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geedoggie
geedoggie :
I'm a guy. Can I do this too?
2025-06-12 17:02:48
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matchabug15
Alexia ♊️ :
I just called off work today! 😂
2025-06-12 19:33:40
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livluchini
liv :
This came at the best time!
2025-06-11 21:17:01
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coco281994
Coco28 :
Thank you so much for this series! Taking notes 📝
2025-06-13 08:13:15
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traumaqueen015
ManMan🤎 :
As a therapist, I LOVE this series!
2025-06-12 17:07:09
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jadarosemary1
jada rosemary :
Followed you immediately, thank you for this
2025-06-16 20:54:13
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djoel2021
Dorothy :
It’s also okay to say No
2025-06-14 06:38:11
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callhercalysta
Calysta :
I just found these videos so I think I’m gonna write them on post its and pick one each day. I gotta learn to stay firm with my boundaries
2025-06-13 13:51:19
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lifelikejones
Danitha :
Love this challenge! I’m locked in
2025-06-13 09:48:22
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asmroverflow
ASMR Overflow 🌊 :
I’ve gotten to a place where I’m saying no from the beginning and I’m so proud of myself 💓
2025-06-13 06:20:24
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rejdnfeben
Fbejfn :
Yes also on the other end! People can tell when you’re showing up to things and not present or feel obligated to go to
2025-06-12 13:57:08
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