@raisingboys_2men: The other parent’s struggles are your child’s reality…⬇️ You might not like them, or care about their mental, physical, or financial challenges but your child will feel the impact. This goes both ways if you’re an active parent. I could never find comfort in my child’s mum struggling, just like she wouldn’t in mine. Our son gains nothing from seeing either of us burnt out, stressed, anxious or drained. You don’t have to like the other parent.❌ You don’t have to agree with their choices.❌ But if you truly love your child, you’ll never wish struggle on the person raising them alongside you. I gain nothing from my child’s mum being worn out. She gains nothing from me being anxious, overwhelmed or broken. Because the moment either of us falls apart, so does the foundation our child stands on. How you treat the other parent says a lot about the love you have for your child.💯 Put the ego aside. Your child is watching. #coparentstruggles #coparentingstruggles #coparentsoftiktok #singlemums #singleparenting #fatheradvice #divorcedparents #raisingkids
Raisingboys_2men
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Wednesday 11 June 2025 13:57:45 GMT
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Miss Oyinda London :
Sadly these narcissistic fathers could not care less about their children 😢
2025-06-11 17:02:56
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Tsi-Squared :
how to make this pop in His type not mine🥺
2025-08-14 10:47:18
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Sarah 🌸 :
This needs to be on his FYP and not mine.
2025-06-11 16:23:58
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Carolyne Anderson :
❤️I couldn’t agree more with u
2025-08-12 06:47:28
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🇮🇪☘️BlueEyes☘️🇮🇪 :
Some fathers don’t parent they perform, then punish when control is lost.
2025-06-12 07:12:50
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Jod 🇬🇧 🇮🇹 :
Tell him this 😳
2025-09-02 07:51:31
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Tony alleyne :
But bro if she put herself in that predicament that on her Her bad choices are not my problem.
2025-06-12 06:33:35
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Cara :
I’d pay someone’s water bill to put this on his fyp
2025-06-11 19:34:12
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BWdB :
this is exactly what I will never understand. I could hate his guts, but if I was the working parent and he would be the sahp, I would always pay what the court ordered and more. Because it’s not for him it’s for our child. He now moved away making visits cut in half but expects me to take on the larger financial burden as well as the care. And to top of that I now have to console my child yet again for another one of her dads toxic actions.
2025-08-28 18:44:29
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Dad & Sons Adventures :
I want 50/50 but she won’t let me have my son more as she wants more money than so she forces me to only see him every fortnight on a weekend 😭
2025-06-11 17:08:12
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Ivorian🇨🇮🇫🇷🇬🇧 :
@Raisingboys_2men literally what I'm going through
2025-08-07 21:00:04
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csababalog28 :
then the other parent shouldn't look after my child,if struggling to pay the bills, it wasn't your choice to leave them,she killed you out. so solve the issue.....
2025-06-12 00:41:38
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Raisingboys_2men :
remember although i may be talking about my childs mum, this applies both ways 🙏
2025-06-11 16:18:13
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taz.0x :
My 3 year old father, I let him see him for the first few weeks, my son came home without his nappy being changed 6+ hours and been in the same nappy I sent him off with, he wouldn’t be bothered to pick his son up but yet send his dad to do it then collect the dad from his house; my son has very bad car sick, he will throw up numerous time and makes him spend more than 3+ hours in the car cus his dad is too lazy to collect
2025-06-15 08:28:18
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sabz_chinx :
facts but some partners like to see the mother struggle not caring about kids sad world
2025-06-11 16:16:03
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The Guiding Light :
May heaven bless the world with many great men like you👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
2025-06-15 11:55:00
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Chanceline Amba Botuli :
my children's father would never be this mature. evererr
2025-06-14 17:32:21
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Vikki Buckley :
my 13 year old don't go to school his very hard work I'm always stressed Ive asked his dad to take him for a few days he always says he can't he pays me £50 a week and that's it no support no help so now I don't even bother asking him for nothing 🙃 he thinks what he does is enough on his part 🙃
2025-06-11 17:40:47
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Gemz :
Wish my ex would realise this he actually said i don’t want to know about your circumstances…….its ya kids circumstances!
2025-07-14 16:58:11
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J✨ :
Aww my bd see this and decided to take our girls instead 🥺
2025-07-17 19:23:33
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Mercy Phiri Dimakats :
the father of my child could careless, instead seeing me miserable makes him happy
2025-08-08 03:51:23
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EnVivoFitness&wellbeing :
🙏🏻 Yiu are so right, thank you for spreading this insight it’s so great!
2025-07-24 17:12:48
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RISEABOVELIMITS :
Soo true 💯💯💯💯💯
2025-08-03 09:41:18
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Dora Bridal Makeup & Hair :
My ex narcissist just said to me… „you are getting benefits to buy uniforms for kids „ 🫣
2025-08-21 17:12:12
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