My mom did this all my life, and because of that she will never truly know me.
2025-06-12 13:28:13
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Norah | Pilates Instructor :
My mum’s the same. That’s why I can’t tell her things anymore.
2025-06-11 21:26:58
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user52829384628193847281948272 :
Mine would then use those secrets against me in an argument, now I have trust issues
2025-07-23 21:59:09
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WolfgangWhite :
this trait comes along with the Boomer mom premium package 😫😫
2025-06-12 06:23:34
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Pkwirring :
My mom is so same, not only she would go tell everyone but later on, in the argument she would use it against me to taunt me and humiliate me, its disgusting.
2025-06-12 20:29:42
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heathervanlissum :
It’s really the principle behind it all. Yes, our little humans are little.. but just because they’re little, doesn’t mean they deserve any less than what we do. You know? Unfortunately, I can relate, heavily.. so I will do anything to create something and do different for my son! 🤍 thank you for talking about this. It’s nice to hear that there’s more people that can relate. You’re amazing!
2025-06-11 20:52:17
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frances :
boomer moms are like this
2025-06-12 08:43:00
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terfyterff :
My mom is my first enemy
2025-06-13 09:37:20
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mother_A :
My mom too. I don’t tell her anything.
2025-07-23 20:54:10
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ammyliv :
When I found out I was pregnant, I didn't tell my mother straight away.
2025-06-12 10:35:10
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Ally :
As a mum this is great information to hear, I want my babies to be able to trust me
2025-06-11 23:31:16
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realmumenergy :
For me it was whenever I told my mum something it was always my fault. What had I done to deserve that or why did I react that way. not are you ok? Can I do anything?
2025-06-11 20:51:24
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Kristen | Life, Romanticized :
OK, ladies, question for you. Is it acceptable to tell your child that you don’t keep secrets from their dad. If they ask you to keep it a secret from Dad is that acceptable? Because my son is six years old and right now when he asks to not tell dad when he does something wrong or Whatever it is, my answer is always I don’t keep secrets from your dad.. is that wrong? Now I don’t know lol
2025-06-12 02:56:41
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imman abdullahi :
This this is why I don’t say anything anymore
2025-06-12 20:36:56
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Nickola :
My mum always says “but she is my sister, my mum, my best friend” ect and I cannot explain to her that I am her daughter and that should trump all the other relationships in her life, a bond with me should be more important to her than any other bond aside from my dad sometimes. She continued to choose anyone but me for my whole life and I will never do that to my daughter, she will know that I want that bond over everything and everyone.
2025-06-11 22:32:48
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belissima_prime :
Can you believe my friends called me spoil and always criticize me because of this?
2025-06-11 22:31:39
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Y.Salsa :
My mom did the same thing so now I make a conscious effort to build a security I didn’t have with my kids
2025-06-12 00:53:05
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Jacq Therese Plunqui :
It's really important you tell everyone about your mums history. I've done this and found out she failed high school and took excessive years to be trained as a nurse, lost her nursing registration and had multiple mental episodes. Siblings with Sid's too. We all punish mum now telling everyone everything about her.
2025-06-12 19:50:15
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jill_of_all_trades 🇨🇦 :
told my mom sobbing about my infetility. told her she could tell 4 trusted people (named them). she told EVERYONE. I was getting messages for months on facebook about it from people from my childhood home church
2025-06-12 11:24:09
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user1680630567102 :
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve been feeling so alone about this lately. Pregnant with our second. Dreaded telling my mom. I’ve felt very private this pregnancy and don’t feel like my whole hometown knowing. Respectfully asked my mom to keep it to family. According to her that makes me “cruel/selfish/ridiculous”. I’m sure she’s already disclosed it to all her friends against my wishes. She always did growing up.
2025-06-12 00:58:20
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Tini 🩵 :
i told my mother i was 1 mo pregnant and told her to keep it to herself the first months, she told one of her coworkers who happened to meet my father and congratulate him for the news. that was my final straw with her, our relationship never recovered from this because i don’t trust her
2025-06-13 04:47:19
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HerBookishReverie🎀 :
Yes and she would lecture me or turn everything into a negative when I would share things with her. Trying to do the opposite with my daughter
2025-06-11 21:33:14
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