Nick_Werber
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kmae111 :
yes and now I'm a chronic people pleaser with social anxiety
2025-06-13 14:38:12
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aprilmmmm03 :
This is how I grew up. My mom would be sweet to someone’s face and sneer at them the second they turned around. It was very confusing
2025-06-12 22:13:18
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Cherry 🇦🇺 :
Gosh, I could have know this 50 years ago and I’d be in a better place today. Thank you for sharing.💚
2025-07-25 08:38:20
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
My mother judged everyone, the mailman, the cooking show host, the cashier at the grocery, the lady at the drive thru. This makes SO much sense.
2025-06-12 21:50:44
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Brooke :
I am so judgy now because of this too and then I project it back onto myself and set these weird standards because im worried someone else is also judging me.
2025-06-13 03:45:26
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Jeannine Seery :
And this is why I can't trust anyone
2025-06-12 23:03:45
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user6638868049192 :
I actually think this causes cognitive dissonance in the younger generation, a mother may talk negatively about another relative that’s doing well in life (usually jealousy) so the child is despondent thinking what’s the point of getting ahead in life? Everyone will hate me if I do well.
2025-06-13 12:14:24
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drewblee :
does anyone here have the thoughts of, if i wasnt related to this person, what would they be saying about me?
2025-06-13 03:20:13
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Anne Gwish :
put it on their page not mine!!
2025-07-22 23:33:04
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mittens_whichcraftmc :
Ergh yes, they were constantly pointing out “fat” people :(
2025-06-14 11:24:46
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soph :
I'll raise you - I literally thought "wow mom & dad are so great for listing out all the ways people can be wrong, now I know how to be perfect. I feel bad for kids who don't have honest parents like mine" hahahaha
2025-06-13 10:31:36
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Dork dork :
This is 100% me. And yes, being judged feels like “the price of admission” to relationships, so I tend to keep them superficial and light. I’m also not great at handling real or perceived criticism. All of this contributes to my overall loneliness.
2025-06-13 11:46:52
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user8954651938707 :
Absolutely, my mom, grandmother, and aunts live close together and talk about all the other family members. I will never open up or trust them because they will talk about my business too and make it everyone’s business.
2025-06-12 22:17:48
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Blaine :
Funny how growing up under constant judgment wires your brain to assume everyone’s holding a gavel, even when you’d never pick one up yourself. It’s like your nervous system still thinks it's being graded, even though you dropped the class years ago.
2025-06-13 00:05:22
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Smash :
I remember joking about it when I was younger. She’d get off the phone with one aunt, then immediately call another aunt and start complaining. I realize now it happens with everyone she knows- even me.
2025-06-13 09:18:37
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AC :
my mom was the ugliest to people for no reason whatsoever. whether it be an actress on TV or our family friend, it was awful
2025-06-14 01:37:11
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Candice :
But isn’t that ultimately just proof that it’s true? If my parents can be that judgmental, does it not illustrate just how judgmental humans can be? Technically isn’t the fear justified? I’m genuinely asking.
2025-06-15 15:19:23
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Jandice Palledorous :
How did you know my life
2025-06-13 06:02:08
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Ange :
Yeah, I thought it was totally normal to be judged by anyone who perceives me. So I tried to turn invisible.
2025-07-15 03:25:21
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Maridith Brown :
How do you heal from this
2025-06-13 12:06:18
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Ok, I’ll Be Outside :
This is something I was very purposeful in not repeating as a parent because of how much it affected me to have parents like this!
2025-06-13 06:53:18
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BrikCowSki🍉🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩 :
I feel like as a late dx AuDHDer, pretty sure my fear of being perceived and judged is bc I WAS constantly judged and misinterpreted constantly. They assumed ill will most of the time. The world judged me and said I wasn't enough or lovable.😅
2025-06-13 20:57:27
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Robin 🇦🇺🏴🇳🇿 :
The algorithm is specific today
2025-06-14 05:19:50
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Cris :
im latina, sadly everyone DOES JUDGE. i have thr biggest fear to be perceived ever
2025-06-14 07:32:14
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Jelly, like the food :
What’s with men making mental health content in nature
2025-06-14 01:30:03
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