Psych 2 Grow
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Eden :
The hardest part is that they’re actually incredible people but they’re so hard to be with. It’s on thier terms on their schedule how they want it. All at arms length. All while decoding a language that most were never taught.
2025-06-15 10:02:50
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Lucy Sinclair :
You can see from this video that it’s all about them. What about you? Find someone who matches your energy and doesn’t suppress you ❤️
2025-06-13 10:17:17
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lana :
i'm tired of being understanding, when is he gonna try to understand me?
2025-07-18 09:31:50
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Imma.stasher :
what should one do when they just go silent all over sudden you try reaching out calmly they responded but goes silent on you again. how are you supposed to act during the their silence time... since you want them to feel safe loved, but again I don't want to reach out so that they don't feel overwhelmed. but if I don't reach out they don't as well
2025-07-29 04:14:18
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Katrina Paris :
Tried everything, nothing worked
2025-06-14 20:36:25
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Mythily Sri :
My guy is opening up and reaching out for me. It’s not for everyone. I am secure and don’t depend on him for anything. What we have is a beautiful honest calm relationship. Others don’t understand our relationship but that’s ok bc WE get it. That’s all that matters. I would choose him over and over again.
2025-06-14 16:54:05
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Tep :
Why is it that people with anxious attachment are the ones who must adjust for avoidant partners
2025-06-20 16:25:25
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01001011 :
An Avoidant has no right to enter into a relationship knowing they are carrying past trauma. It's not their partners job to adjust; It's the Avoidants job to fix themselves
2025-07-08 03:38:52
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୭̥ ☭ Felix ☭ ❏ :
I’m gonna do my best
2025-06-17 16:51:54
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-ˏˋDazaisnumberonedickriderˊˎ- :
As avoidant myself, they need to want to change first.. No matter how understanding you are, they have to put in the effort aswell
2025-07-30 09:33:49
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cristianx000 :
I’m not avoidant, but people need to stop acting like avoidants are the villains. Their behaviour usually comes from trauma and growing up thinking love isn’t safe. If that’s too much for you, fair enough. But some of us actually care enough to learn how to be there for someone who never got to feel safe in the first place. It’s like learning a whole new language, the language of someone who’s had to protect themselves for years. If that feels like too much, just say you’re not built for real connection and move on. No one’s forcing you to stick around. But when you really love someone, you do stick around. That’s what love is. You choose to love that person no matter what, while still staying grounded. It’s not for the weak
2025-06-28 16:08:59
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Nicole :
Now i understand that i'm with an avoidant partner
2025-06-16 02:20:29
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april :
tbh i just want someone who will reassure me when im overthinking and invest time in me
2025-06-18 16:21:34
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Leah O :
I hate being an avoidant. 😭
2025-06-20 07:45:48
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Charlie :
It’s impossible to connect with these people. I know they aren’t narcs but so many of the behaviours overlap. These are people you need to stay away from. 99% won’t be able to heal. Dates two of them. Impossible.
2025-06-13 13:30:51
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Joe :
Love shouldn't be so difficult. Very unhealthy for both parties.
2025-07-28 14:04:32
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Kevin Alfred :
Life is too short to waste your time with this type of person. I usually walk away pretty quickly when I sense this pattern in someone
2025-06-17 23:50:55
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ArepasToAuroras :
does this work after we broke up? 🙃 i understand him now... but we are not together anymore and this might be late? i wish i saw it when we were together
2025-06-17 20:22:59
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Maria :
Avoidants aren't consistent, so there is that. You can try everything with them and it won't work. Don't try to change them just leave them. they're not necessarily bad people buy they will drain you especially if you're an emotionally attached person
2025-06-29 13:30:16
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Cosmin. :
Gave them space, time, and choices every single time and she still preferred to abandon the boy she cried all life to get 💀
2025-06-15 14:00:56
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Frame of mind :
The most comprehensive I’ve ever heard, great one👍
2025-06-13 16:01:08
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user6134222409961 :
Honestly the best thing is for them to heal
2025-06-14 01:15:39
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April Miller :
yep it takes someone with a lot of maturity to communicate in a way that is respectful. avoidants can't deal with immaturity
2025-06-14 03:03:10
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Carol Vale (Nada)🍉 :
now make a video on how I can stop being avoidant cuz it's not fair on the other person that they fell for the broken piece of trash that I am, and it's not fair that they get hurt or have to fold because of my trauma when they already have their own
2025-07-06 04:45:10
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NoMoneyNoProblems :
Why are we trying to teach people how to cope with insecure attachment styles. We should be encouraging people to heal from them.
2025-06-29 03:47:59
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