Someone told me my hyper independence is a red flag, and in a way it is, but I didn't get here out of choice, I got here because everytime I asked for help I didn't get, everytime I reached out when in crisis no one was available, and I was never anyone's priority. I stopped trying to make large birthday plans, and now just make plans for myself, and occasionally one person will join.
2025-06-16 10:10:31
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Raem Flores :
Solitude. Not their solidarity.
2025-06-16 03:52:55
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mphokuhle :
solidarity 😂😂
2025-06-21 07:05:57
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getahead64 :
If the hyper independent let someone in, they need someone. It is a need. This is simply not the purest form of love - it is the lowest. They are very self driven and their isolation means they struggle to have meaningful relationship. They are generally suspicious of any affection as causing them some kind of responsibilty. They are not healthy and in relationship with themselves.
2025-06-16 04:57:05
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Cait :
If you betray us, we will never tell you. We will just disappear. It’s one of the worst feelings but we will move on from you as well
2025-06-16 17:38:11
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Black Tupa :
this is my red flag trait. it's hard for me to let people in and if i try, i easily get disappointed and find reasons to let go again.
2025-07-27 14:52:01
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L Ryuga 🦋 :
hyper independent people are emotionally unavailable
2025-06-16 14:31:00
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123123 :
What’s the point of marriage if the woman and man are independent? Marriage is all about being dependent on each other. For independent people it is better to just have a live in life and not marriage.
2025-07-02 11:23:31
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coolmowee1 :
Sweet
2025-07-26 14:43:08
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Jedi Code :
They don’t need you but they feel safe with u ? What more can one ask other than safety ? Emotional safety and company is way safer than material safety if that is what u employing
2025-07-27 06:23:00
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Molly.Booth :
Until I read Feminine Ancient Blessings, manifestation never worked for me. I would get into the frequency to attract what I wanted, but my own emotions always betrayed me. That one read changed my life forever and honestly it’s kind of tragic how more people don’t know about it.
2025-06-16 12:16:03
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Pakks :
The goal is to add to someone’s life, and have someone add to yours. We’re all okay alone, but a love that makes us better is the best love of all 🫶
2025-07-24 21:57:09
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Rebecca Province :
Company feels better than their SOLITUDE
2025-06-16 02:57:29
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epd_1989 :
Mmmm. I disagree. Hyper independence is a trauma response from childhood.
2025-06-16 13:24:10
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Miah :
My partner and I are both hyper independent. It’s so nice man 😍
2025-06-16 11:53:25
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akm1980ish💙🇺🇸🆘 :
Once you show you can’t be trusted, you will never get the real me. You’ll get the “surface me” I show you but you will never see the real me again. You’ll will never KNOW the real me. 😘
2025-06-16 15:24:46
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Sir Perro :
Hyper-independence isn’t strength — it’s fear of attachment dressed up as power.
2025-06-28 10:13:29
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berkehidupan :
FOR REAAAALLLL
2025-06-21 19:38:35
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Peet Montzingo :
fr and ppl get mad when u dont make them feel needed🙄
2025-06-17 17:35:26
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Marina ✨ :
Never had that and think I never will 😅
2025-07-10 21:59:16
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jereme :
"They stop needing people a very long time ago. "🖤
2025-06-15 23:50:52
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MEGATRON :
100% agreed!
2025-07-02 11:55:56
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Da BaN :
I don't need You 🫤
I want You 😏
And i chose You 🙂
2025-06-16 11:14:20
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Half Dog :
Needing nothing from no one. Is peace, it's freedom.
2025-07-02 12:07:52
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