@relationshipswithaly: When your partner hasn’t initiated s** in a while, you may feel all types of ways. You might wonder if they’re still attracted to you, or start questioning if you’re doing something wrong in the bedroom. The truth is, there are all sorts of reasons why someone hasn’t initiated in a while—and it’s important that you can talk to them about it without starting a fight. Here are some scripts to use that open the door without blame: ✨ Hey, I’d love to have more s* and feel closer to you that way. How have you been feeling about our current s** life?* ✨ I’ve been initiating s* a lot recently, and I’m feeling a bit insecure since you’ve been initiating less. Is there something going on for you?* ✨ I’ve noticed we haven’t been as physically connected lately, and I miss that part of us. Can we talk about what’s been going on for you? ✨ I want to feel close to you, and I’ve been wondering how you’re feeling about our physical intimacy these days. I’m open to hearing whatever’s coming up for you. ✨ I’ve been feeling a little vulnerable bringing this up, but I really care about our connection—and that includes our s** life. Can we check in about it sometime soon? ✨ I know life gets busy and stress affects both of us differently. I’ve been craving more physical closeness and wondering what your experience has been lately. ✨ I’ve felt a little confused about the shift in our physical intimacy. I don’t want to assume anything, so I wanted to ask how you’ve been feeling and if there’s anything you need from me. Want a safe space to talk about all this? Comment FREEBIE and I’ll send you my free relationship check-in guide, so you can have important conversations without resentment.
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Tuesday 17 June 2025 21:39:14 GMT
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LexyMWhite :
You’re told as a women men will put it in anything warm and to be “cautious.” They don’t prepare you for the busy brain man whose mind is always going. At the end of the night he just wants to sleep and it’s hard to accept that “rejection” as a high drive woman. Just communicate your pain!
2025-06-18 17:30:47
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Jenn Riggins :
I'm the high drive partner and when I stopped initiating everything stopped. It's been almost a full year and I'm not even interested anymore. No questions or conversation about it that I didn't initiate...all done
2025-06-22 17:49:08
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user96253562611 :
Unfortunatley high drive wives get sympathy and high drive husbands are told they are vile.
2025-06-18 20:55:14
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ortaguswifey :
thank God I'm not alone here. I end up feeling totally undesired
2025-06-18 20:36:38
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madone :
So sick of, as a man, having to do 100% of the effort and when things do happen, it’s a chore.
2025-06-18 21:00:36
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Michael Thibert🇨🇦 :
That’s a myth , I’m still trying after 1 year and still nothing, I’m about to give up
2025-06-18 13:35:19
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Charlene :
If I try to initiate and he says no he’s not in the mood of course I’m sad about it but usually within that day or the next day then he initiates. It shows him that I would like the attention but I don’t want him to feel like it’s a chore
2025-06-19 14:29:20
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Sarah :
I’m tired of asking though
2025-06-18 10:38:21
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N7 Drones :
Ffft try 7 years and when I ask and ask and ask and try and try and try and try and rejected over and over and over, u just give up
2025-06-18 02:31:32
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CrimsonsShadow :
Sorry I’m tired
2025-06-21 20:18:53
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Blah :
We get it. It’s only a problem when it’s this way around.
2025-06-20 04:21:20
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Amanda Raynor :
I’m experiencing this for the first time. I’m glad I’m not alone.
2025-06-20 03:04:13
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G30RG3 Puvi :
I stopped for 4 months . She undersold that it is time for us to move away
2025-06-18 10:46:39
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Grant.W 🇨🇦 :
This works the other way around too
2025-06-18 13:34:59
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CowCuddler :
No
2025-06-19 14:16:28
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John M. Shaw :
gotta feel super bad for those guys
2025-06-18 05:26:10
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Nestor Daniel Hernandez :
And where do we find these women???
2025-06-18 11:38:53
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Steve Sims :
Been 5+ years for me and wife not happy
2025-06-18 06:35:59
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Jamaican Gaming official :
🥺 so sad..
2025-06-18 05:21:08
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thepitsmith :
😂
2025-06-17 23:36:26
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Stonecoldkiller :
She could always initiate it doesn’t always have to be the man.
2025-06-17 22:21:02
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@rfeurer86 :
I definitely have the higher drive, it makes me very insecure but I also try my hardest to be understanding for him.
2025-06-18 17:52:23
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carbohydrating :
what if he doesn't find her attractive anymore? what's the best (or least worst) way to handle that?
2025-06-17 23:12:23
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Beth Cunningham :
Yea this is me and my partner and im so glad this is talked about more. He has depression and anxiety which often affects his libido, and we are very open with each other, I tell him if I’m feeling undesired and check in to make sure it’s not something more serious. It’s hard sometimes but he’s so affectionate and lovely, I know it has nothing to do with me, I enjoy when we are intimate and I feel no shame in taking care of myself 😂
2025-06-18 11:24:48
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