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susanmcmurphy
susanmcmurphy :
My husband must hate me then ! Cheated more than once
2025-06-18 15:31:55
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happyhoneybeeco
HoneyBee3.0 :
100% they did not love or respect their partner.
2025-06-18 13:10:17
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fizzpop3
💕 :
he says ask ppl the cheat how they live, they dont feel guilty
2025-09-21 13:19:44
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doo1968
doo1968 :
I would have agreed with this a few months ago.. but seeing how broken my spouse is and all of the work we are doing individually and together , the cheating was never about me. Now that he is back to reality he is truly remorseful and horrified at what his weakness and sickness did to us. However, ..my psyche , soul and heart are shattered. It is going to take a long time to get over it… if I can.
2025-06-18 18:23:08
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ambi_vision22
SomeKindOfGem :
They love the idea of that person but not the true person.
2025-06-18 13:44:03
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tmendise
Tom :
If divorce did not destroy people financially or socially the divorce rate would be 90%.
2025-06-19 10:40:22
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indigolee72
Michelle Lee Christe :
I’m not justifying cheating anyway, shape or form, but people cheat for different reasons and I think in some cases yes they do love their spouse, even though they are cheating. Two things can be true at once.
2025-06-18 17:28:28
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shauna0004
Shauna :
I wish I could download this so I could send it to my husband.
2025-06-18 16:57:59
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kwalk0401
Kim 🪷 :
What made the person stop loving them? Were they devalued, ignored…were they’d needs or feeling even considered? That destroys love
2025-08-24 01:49:45
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janette8077
janette8077 :
yes they can love their spouse
2025-06-19 15:27:42
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teresam_6.23
💖TeresaM💖 :
Why so many opinions? The only answer is NO. You don’t hurt anyone you love that deeply. Period. Love is selfless. Cheating is SELFISH
2025-06-18 17:31:21
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seungholee068
chickenbrain :
cheating is emotional homicide. you can't kill the person you love.
2025-06-19 15:52:12
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ffff50324
ghhn :
no they can't cheat if they r in love. because loving means respect and care. no caring person could cheat knowing the pain they r giving to another.
2025-06-19 11:24:23
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vanessasalo
vanessasalo :
What if they think the other person won't know? and therefore they don't want to hurt the person by keeping it a secret?
2025-06-19 20:26:01
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agnesea_
Agnė :
I was cheating because I'm an addict. Now recovering, but back then... I was betraying and feeling so guilt because can't show up as a loyal wife and hurt him. it's tearing apart - compulsive uncontrollable behaviour and what I'm going. In recovery I got tools and healed what urged me to choose egoistic fears over other person
2025-06-19 15:16:54
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magstor_101
Maggie 🇨🇦 :
It’s only the financial devastation it brings to the Cheater that keeps them in the marriage. Cheaters don’t stay for these other reasons you state . There is no love & respect for the spouse , the family unit & anything else . Only what it will cost to them financially in the divorce . So they stay to protect themselves financially.
2025-07-25 20:02:05
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nenineni354
Qwertyu :
That i dont know but sure they love themselves more then anyone🙃
2025-06-18 16:26:46
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lotus_flower_1
Elaine :
but they stay for the kids like they are protecting them but in reality it just harms them more,kids are resilient
2025-06-19 12:11:30
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unknowndirection_
Nadia🐊🏞️ :
The answer is no.👌
2025-06-18 14:33:34
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hootie1fan
hootie1fan :
Cheaters will love their marriage but they don’t love their spouse
2025-06-19 12:24:19
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firoz_abader
Firoza Abaderفيروزا أبادر :
Yes true true true.. It's about his identity and comfort
2025-08-16 22:20:32
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rosalindadejesusfield
Rosalinda DeJesus Fi :
I believe it’s biology, men especially, are hardwired to breed, and we choose to be monogamous…We’re polygamous by nature. It takes a lot of willpower and respect not to cheat and to try to not put yourself in that position where it would be tempting. However you can absolutely love someone and cheat. However, there was lack of respect and a selfish energy at that time. The real question is do they have any remorse for it? Is the behavior continuing?
2025-06-18 14:03:10
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user1547686622243
lalaland :
Not true. I love my husband but I’ve cheated because there was no intimacy in my marriage.
2025-06-20 12:31:27
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sd.owen32
SD Owen ❌ :
I don’t think the people who cheat ever learned how to love themselves. That’s the true conundrum. How do you learn to love someone else when never learned how to love yourself?
2025-06-19 02:21:25
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