a person that is defensive is not necessarily narcissistic. please don't assume that. it's there are ways you need to talk to certain people in certain ways. doing it in a positive way should be the way you always do it for everyone.
a defensive person is that way because people usually make them feel bad for doing the best they can. and that person is fed up and trying to defend their efforts. ok? it's important to understand a person.
2025-06-21 22:57:55
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Jöhnny2XS :
Stroke their ego. I also ask them "How would you handle XYZ?" If it aligns with my thoughts I say "That's brilliant! I would have never thoughts of that". Do what you need to get it across the goal post. I dont need my ego stroked to be happy.
2025-06-18 19:21:35
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user5152537262193 :
im shocked.. i did exactly this purely out of instinct and it worked!
does that shows something about me?
which i should be concerned?
2025-06-18 19:19:54
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Daniel Allison :
This is really helpful, thanks Olesya
2025-06-18 18:51:09
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mark wylde :
controlling by compliance and acceptance of poor behaviour to fix poor behavior- NO
2025-06-19 22:56:03
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Marcy Jalovec :
bahahaha 😁. I saw that
2025-06-18 21:04:36
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TheOwl :
But I can’t lie 😂😂😂 I tried doing this once and I just busted out laughing… 😂😂😂 My facial expressions would give me away. It would come off as sarcasm.
2025-06-19 02:50:50
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physixchimp :
Patronising a narcissist? It's better to have nothing to do with any of them if they cannot be influenced.
2025-06-19 17:18:58
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Jan :
That is selling the package, but in reality it's dishonest and lies. Don't do that. Pray to God and give everything in his hands, change your perspective, of everything is Gods gift and blessings, open your heart and see with it. Be a master. Then you won't attract those things, much love Sister
2025-06-19 20:10:19
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kellynessdef2 :
Doesn’t this fuel a later disruption bc they also lack consistentcy and aren’t often regulated enough not to share the praise they got by blasting it
2025-06-19 13:06:07
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marc :
this itself can be a narcisistic ??
2025-06-19 10:48:26
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LKW :
im not sugar coating at work. yes I agree we need to talk with them like this. I have had narcissists backlash at any confrontation with them.
2025-06-19 00:04:57
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D_52🌜 :
Work is therapy
2025-06-19 05:15:52
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shawtythecat🇵🇸 :
Got emotionally abused for years by a narcissist cousin, which i didnt even know i was being abused. Until i got educated on narcissim
2025-06-19 05:11:16
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Irfan Surdar :
Perfectly in agreement that the more knowledgable a person become, the more polite their demeanor shold be. They should explain themselves politely.
2025-06-19 02:20:23
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⠀erica :
Очень интересна эта рубрика!
2025-06-19 17:16:33
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Milka Bobrovski :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-06-19 13:43:29
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Mysterious :
🌺🌺🌺
2025-06-19 09:59:01
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momentmovement :
What about adhd? I actually look for proper criticism, but it's mostly low effort nonsense that comes out of people's mouths for the most part.
2025-06-18 19:32:08
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SkyNet👨💻 :
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2025-06-18 22:26:18
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ad :
sweetheart, can I manipulate you, let's have a drink together. I insist please
2025-06-19 23:43:06
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