Blaze-konami
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Bobby Christiansen :
15 years of this. all the while I had adhd my wife we believe has autism. and we both have cptsd. im the anxious she's a avoidant. I developed a corn addiction at some point in the early years of our marriage. idk if well make it to this but I damn near broke down reading this. idk why its just some what it could look like if we both healed.
2025-08-03 06:46:44
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ezenelex :
yea but what is going to make the avoidant suddenly mature lol...
2025-06-24 19:31:33
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user1885444728289 :
IS THERE EVER AN INSTANCE THE ANXIOUS ATTACHED IS SO EXTREME TO START IN THEIR FEAR IT REALLY IS CROSSING A LINE MAKES SENSE A BOUNDARY HAS TO BE SET OF STEPPING AWAY BECAUSE THEY ARE ACTING DISRESPECTFUL THEMSELVES THAT MAKES THE "AVOIDANT " FOR THE TIME APPROPRIATE AND NOT THE IMMATURE VILLAIN?
2025-08-03 05:56:40
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Heather Heath :
I love him enough to work on myself and be the partner he needs. Some people are worth investing in.
2025-07-01 13:44:19
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GenXJules :
Sounds like a very empty and sad existence. I’m so blessed to have experienced a husband who helped me regulate my emotions.
2025-06-24 12:29:24
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🧘♀️ :
girlies nothing changed my life like one book about manipulation and this reminds me of some parts of it, hidden lowkey book that literally made me a different person, lemme know if you want me to find it
2025-07-02 13:36:44
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seandaily :
However, those frequent check ins cannot be breadcrumbing
2025-07-10 19:54:26
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x.joshsantos :
I care about her deeply, and that love drives me to grow into the person she deserves. When someone truly matters to you they’re worth all the growth and effort.
2025-07-31 11:27:54
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Moira Jo | Fearful Avoidant💋 :
This is a challenging dynamic
2025-07-02 23:58:35
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Dhanya 🔅 Subhas :
I thought I was anxious and this showed me I’ve healed my anxious self and now I’m more avoidant
2025-06-24 20:01:32
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Georgina ✨ :
We’re just beginning this healing journey, praying we can actually finish it together 💕🙏🏼
2025-06-26 00:28:07
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Beth💞 :
do i send this to him when he’s an avoidant or do u think it will scare him off and make him more avoidant
2025-07-14 05:36:11
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Something :
As an avoidant I dislike the bad rep we get over anxious, neither are ideal but both are a consequence of something happening to us.
2025-06-26 19:29:22
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Mara :
I wanted to do all that. I had so much patience with him and gave up all my expectations not to annoy him. He still doesn’t want me. He didn’t understand that we can work on it and gave up. He tried breaking up with me but I crashed out. So now he just ignores me
2025-06-26 14:58:35
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яєηєє :
How do you not feel abandoned when the avoidant runs away and stays silent and its been almost 7 months.
2025-07-09 06:12:44
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BAKSOBIBIKPODAS :
may avoidants never find me
2025-08-01 01:33:21
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I really hope things work out
2025-06-30 15:01:29
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Fixing-reality :
Her fyp pls… we are currently working on healing ourselves to be better for one another to try again so we don’t throw it away for nothing…. Praying 🙏
2025-07-03 13:47:23
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Graced_Kitz :
yhoooo bafo..as an anxious this hits deep. I am getting better. I now realise his avoidant was triggering me..but now am getting better at regulating myself...with the help of friends and family ofcourse❤️
2025-06-24 15:52:52
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sleepywzrd :
as an avoidant, I don't want to be this way.
2025-07-04 05:13:40
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Nutri-Sculpt :
As the anxious attached with a dismissive for 3 years, I have learned that my issues are just as unhealthy as his. I started working on me, doing courses, showing up as a non-triggering partner and I am seeing all of this occur in our relationship ❤️
2025-07-09 15:01:31
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Sue 🌎 :
I was there but he could not maintain consistency. which made me feel that this was something he was forced to do and was not or I was not important enough to meet me half way.
2025-06-25 02:03:53
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happyplace_89 :
But we aren’t doing this with each other or toward each other……we are forced to do this toward someone new
2025-08-01 06:41:17
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D❤️🔥 :
why do I have to be both 🥲 disorganized attachment sucks
2025-07-07 15:04:04
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Anya Qin :
Funny how I literally just read abt this
2025-07-09 03:50:30
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