@shanboody: You communicated. You were intentional. You didn’t play games. And he still ghosted you, leaving you wondering what you did wrong. @duckwrth opens up about the fear underneath it all.
He shares how love can feel good, even right, but when it finally shows up, it scares him. #LoversByShan #Intimacy #Ghosting #Love #Masculinity #Situationships #Vulnerability #ToxicMasculinity #Duckwrth #LoversPodcast

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ginacandoanything
Gina :
Typical avoidant behavior. Usually latches on to the anxious lover girls. They’re attracted to one another like a moth to a flame. Pummels their confidence and sends their nervous system into overdrive. You betray yourself trying to love someone who’s not emotionally available. That’s all dismissive avoidants are is emotionally unavailable people.
2025-06-24 13:14:03
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lifeasjuanitanicole
lifeasjuanitanicole :
oh so he's an avoidant?
2025-06-24 03:46:19
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jmeezay
Jaime_Travels :
I really do appreciate this level of self awareness and accountability. So many of us need to hear this
2025-06-23 17:08:42
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underheavenoverhell7
PrettierJesus(Lorde’s Version) :
So real! Changing for the better tho
2025-06-23 18:48:00
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goodkarma405
R 💞💫 :
Ooooo,, this is so me 😭😭😭
2025-06-23 16:48:07
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queenscafeentertainm3nt
QueensCafé :
🎯
2025-06-24 01:53:30
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nomvvd
nomvvd :
😁😁😁
2025-06-23 20:06:04
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nilakhumo
Selepe Khumo Kamohel :
😂
2025-07-27 14:28:56
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user2602659831772
珍妮 :
i really have a hole that needs to be filled is crazy 🤣
2025-06-23 19:18:25
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afrobae23
Michelle :
I want to make space for the fact that he is learning, but this interview was very frustrating to listen to. Especially hearing that he has exclusively dated queer women for years. Not only because he was deceptive, which he admits to, but because there is a benefit to dating queer women who are more accepting of men for exactly who they are without projecting masculinity onto them. It feels a bit predatory. I hope he does hold himself accountable, as well as his future partners. I’m looking forward to seeing the actions of his growth as a fan.
2025-06-24 15:40:10
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