Laeticia
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ᴋʏʟᴇ❽ :
i fear i am that friend..
2025-06-25 14:16:53
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ewan :
i shouldn’t have to tell a friend basic human decency sorry
2025-06-26 16:36:57
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Tani 🥟 :
I did and she victimised herself and refused to apologise and I had to apologise instead. So now I’d rather just stay quiet and slowly cut off ☺️
2025-06-25 12:29:25
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Slinky_mochi :
This is a manipulative tactic known as triangulation. It's often used by individuals who fear direct confrontation. Rather than addressing issues maturely and openly, they speak to a third party—usually a mutual friend—in order to self-regulate and validate their own perspective. Over time, as they repeatedly complain or speak negatively about the person they're upset with, they begin to convince themselves that this person is inherently malicious or intentionally hurtful. But in truth, what’s happening is that they’re avoiding honest communication. Instead of clarifying misunderstandings or setting boundaries directly, they leave the other person out of the loop entirely. Eventually, when the other person finally asserts a boundary or does something that challenges the unspoken expectations, the triangulating individual often cannot handle it. They may lash out, paint themselves as the victim, and accuse the friend of being disrespectful or toxic—without ever having communicated their feelings in the first place. In the end, the blame shifts not because the friend has wronged them, but because the individual has built a private narrative that justifies their own emotional immaturity.
2025-06-27 15:54:15
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ﾉ*.✧Ø+miﾉ*.✧ :
I bring up the issue after I get advice so I don't mess anything up
2025-07-31 22:08:41
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Wnris :
sorry for complaining about her toxic behavior ig??
2025-07-01 09:07:29
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Cherry :
If you brought up an issue to a friend multiple times to see no change choosing to stop bringing up isn’t the only thing you need to do. It’s time to cut them off… OMG WHO SAID THAT????? Me. I did.
2025-06-25 13:56:41
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Jiffy_lube#7785 :
I always tell her and she always denies it
2025-06-25 01:54:51
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Afnanun Nahar Babonee :
i fear I'm that bit..
2025-06-25 05:42:10
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Rey [SAW ATEEZ 31/5] :
okay but when i do they’ll twist the issue to defend themselves or they’ll get distant💀 so i choose to just stay quiet to keep the friendship
2025-06-25 12:08:14
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Adeline :
What I bring up the issue to her, she shuts down and dismisses me 🥲
2025-06-27 23:13:49
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𝓾’ꨄ :
Born to repost, Forced to like.🙏😭
2025-06-26 22:39:37
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⋆｡𖦹°🫧⋆.ೃ࿔*. :
They said the exact thing to me. that am that b*** but they know so well that they were my only friends and didn’t talk to anyone else. But in their eyes am a b***.
2025-07-31 23:41:20
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Nox_ttt_ :
I DID, I SAID IT
2025-06-23 19:36:51
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jaustien :
so what if I said it multiple times but they continue to do the same thing 💔
2025-06-25 06:42:09
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Izzy :
I fear this may be me 😭 most of the time it's little things that really aren't worth bringing us given the type of reaction some people may have but then the little things obviously start to build up and grow into resentment from me but now it's too big that if I bring it up it just looks like I should have brought it up sooner 😭
2025-06-25 18:26:21
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⸝⸝ lyssie .ᐟ .ᐟ :
i only did that with the man who was manipulating me by victimizing himself and then being petty towards me after i tried to help him with his issues… 🤦♀️
2025-06-29 02:20:34
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... :
not when they have a victim mindset and constantly forces herself to feel "depressed"
2025-06-26 20:51:08
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justblathnaid🧟♀️ :
but if I say it she crys and trys to twist the story to others
2025-06-25 18:17:21
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en.joy._my_dick :
i do confront them and it's rare I talk about them and I try fixing the issue but they never listen to me and I can't leave because then I'll lose everyone so is there any advice someone can give me
2025-06-25 05:58:49
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🤍💋 :
Right Brooklyn??
2025-07-14 22:52:17
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#1 Azure kisser :
i fear i AM that friend 🥀 sorry not sorry bro
2025-07-03 13:39:34
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sora :
i’d rather talk about my frustrations to people who can support me and slowly distance myself from her because everytime i bring up the problem suddenly im the problem, it’s honestly just a tiring situation that i’d rather slowly cut off
2025-07-01 08:35:54
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:່ :
ok i bring the issue up so im not a bad friend
2025-07-31 20:28:35
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🄰na :
if i do i have only 2 friends left girl i dont wanna be lonelyyyy
2025-07-29 22:40:19
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