@jordan.rand: @Madi Webb and I get a lot of comments like “I would NEVER date a bisexual” but never say never. I validate it’s understandable you might not feel emotionally or romantically connected to SOME bisexuals. Some of us are very queer cultured, and some of us are dying to learn and don’t know where to start. Keep an open mind! We belong here too 🫶🏽🩷💜💙 and for my straight cultured bi’s, you’re not alone, YOURE A VALID PART OF THE COMMUNITY, and there’s a beautiful culture worth exploring! Happy Pride! 🫶🏽🩷💜💙🌈 #bi #bisexual #bitok #wlw #lgbtq #fyp
nobody has to date someone, but the only reasons I've ever heard for not dating bisexuals are rooted in biphobia
2025-06-23 22:41:25
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Dominique :
I am not interested in bi women because many of yall are still male centered and that's okay. Date fellow bi women, it's fine.
2025-06-24 01:25:40
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Rebelnae | Twitch Streamer :
Why is it ALWAYS bi women being picked on? I get wanting to date someone who’s culturally queer but it is always directed at bi women. Bi men, lesbians, gay men etc can also be not immersed in queer culture so why is the discussion always directed at bi women? I’m tired of it
2025-06-24 08:46:15
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⭐️CAT⭐️ :
I hate the fact that if you say you’re Bi as a woman, everyone just thinks you’re a straight in denial. But if you say you’re Bi as a man, everyone thinks you’re a gay in denial.
2025-06-24 21:59:26
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Hippiehousewife🪿📚 :
Give me one reason to want to be in the community when we’re automatically treated this way then? Wanna know how many bi women are assaulted to “make them pick a side.”? I’m one of many and it wasn’t a man
2025-06-24 23:18:35
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Crystal 👻🩹 :
Just I never hear anyone say they won’t date anyone who isn’t culturally queer, it’s only specifically bisexuals. Any queer person can be culturally queer or not, not just bisexuals. That’s why it seems a bit biphobic yk.
2025-06-24 02:36:45
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Morado🕷️💜 :
idk how to make irl queer friends
2025-06-24 08:27:51
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𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚕𝚒𝚣 🦇 :
i live in the north of Sweden.... what am I suppose to do?! 😭
2025-06-24 07:31:07
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jaydiebug1123 :
Like im not gay enough for the LGBTQ community but Im still called slurs by straight people
2025-08-29 13:30:38
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florida man :
this can be said abt literally any sexuality tho 😭😭 plenty of lesbians and gay men aren’t immersed in queer culture either it makes no sense to single out bi women if that’s the issue
2025-06-24 03:33:11
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Lili :
As a lesbian, biphobia is also hypocritical because a lot of people who are immersed in queer culture and who are biphobic are fans of pop icons and celebrities who are literally BISEXUAL!!! 😭😭 Like lady gaga, david bowie, doechii, megan thee stallion, etc etc and they play a huge part in queer culture!!
2025-06-24 11:41:18
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🧸 :
Or maybe (hear me out) we just let people live 🥀💔
2025-06-24 08:26:04
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Emma 🏴 :
So what for those of us who were queer cultured but effectively forced out when we got serious with a man (marriage and kids)? It’s actually the bit that stings the most.
2025-06-24 00:47:28
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graceameliar :
a guy once told me he wouldn’t date a bi girl because that’s double the competition… my response was ‘are you that insecure?’
2025-06-24 11:42:01
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MaddieW2001 :
Can we also give the bi women who settled down w a man some love 😓 ❤️. I feel like as soon as we settle down with either side we immediately get cast out as “fake bi/gae etc”
2025-06-24 01:15:55
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Vanessa :
As a bisexual from a small town saying things like to be culturally, queer are to be accepted in the queer space you have to have queer friends and you have to go to gay bars and stuff like that is just so incredibly insane to me because where I am from there are not that many gay people and I don’t even know of any gay bars near me at all. I know there is a pride celebration near me, but I would feel a little bit uncomfortable going by myself as there aren’t any people I know who would be interested in going. Also, I know lesbians who are not very culturally queer either yet they’re fully accepted. It’s just very disheartening to hear.
2025-06-24 03:32:50
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Pixxie :
My thing is the queer community in my area is very big on going out, I am an autistic homebody, I gravitate towards femme presenting, cross dressing men, who are straight but not cis and also autistic and homebodies at least in my local community I found it hard to find community because, more often than not. The things I like, like video games and anime and staying home, are not really a thing for the local community. And seen as childish. I know fellow queers who prefer to stay home, and don’t drink and play video games and go to conventions exist. But in my area those are mostly things straight people do. Or the majority I’ve met have been straight.
2025-06-25 14:12:45
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Sarah Garcia :
GOD I RELATE SO MUCH, yessssss 💕
2025-06-23 21:25:12
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Alex :
I try and call out any lesbians/sapphics/queer women I meet that are biphobic. Honestly all the bi girlies I've dated have been nothing but amazing. Wishing all bisexuals a very Happy Pride! 💗💗💗
2025-06-23 21:24:58
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Cris wang :
Genuine question, why don’t bisexual people find close community with other bisexual people. Aka people who have the same experiences as them and can validate. Cuz you’ll never see me going to a bisexual person or a gay man to find validation as a lesbian??? Like community sure, but validation and learning about my role in the community???
2025-06-25 05:08:03
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zsazsa015 :
I came out as bi later in life, at my first pride I was told I couldn't possibly be bi as I was in a relationship with a man. I've a lot to learn about queer culture and struggle to feel part of it.
2025-06-23 23:25:40
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veerlejosie :
I finally understand myself, I’m a straight cultured bisexual! This has honestly changed my perspective, and now I know this is the first step towards knowing what to do about my struggles dating women, thanks guys 🥰
2025-06-25 10:50:37
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Jay :
I don't have queer friends and don't have a place in my local queer community, zero idea how to bridge that gap.
2025-06-24 13:20:02
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jordenkaufmann :
I was in the queer community and still not dateable 🤷🏼♀️and it all stemmed from biphobia. Queer friends, gay bars, celebrated pride, openly bi. Didn’t matter.
2025-07-04 06:58:48
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@Sofia.Chavez :
It took me such a long time to realize y’all are in the same room😭
2025-11-19 03:56:24
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