Second statement I agree. The first one- if a lesbian says they’re attracted to a trans man then that seen as invalidating, I think a lot of people confuse the idea of trans masc being lesbians and trans men. If someone identifies as a man I truly doubt that they would be comfortable being seen as a lesbian vs someone who is just more masculine presenting. But that’s just my thoughts.
2025-06-24 20:55:27
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Josh - PersonalZombie :
it's like adding 0, nothing has really changed but a process has still occurred and that's important
2025-06-24 19:17:02
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SILLYBILLY :
i made a comment about “oh transman lesbians blah blah” and then scrolled… i had gotten a video that made realize “oh damn, I shouldn’t police others labels because they know their bodies more than anyone, and even if i still don’t understand their identity I shouldn’t have to as long as they’re content with themself” so that’s pretty cool and i hope you guys have a chill day
2025-07-11 09:22:27
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Kodokuna Yuki :
It's the fact that they took effort to even reach that conclusion. It's like running a lap, yeah the start and finish are the same point but you RAN the lap.
2025-06-24 21:14:42
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Jake / Auto !!! ⏳ :
Still don't understand the whole idea of "lesboys", seems counter productive, but i completely agree with this!
2025-06-25 15:28:19
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Colin🦀❤️ :
Honestly I’m not educated enough to have anytake on trans men can be lesbians debate, all I know is i want to be happy and accepted and I want others to feel that way too
2025-06-25 02:03:08
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progdavid :
this is way easier to understand than the first take, ngl
2025-06-24 20:25:18
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Lilli 💘 :
YOU SAID IT!!!! THE LABELS ARE FAKE Like its just a way to understand your personal journey, thats why “trans man lesbians” exist! Because finding the stuff that affirms your way of life is all that matters! Why does how someone else lives and finds joy bother you? Unpack that first!
2025-06-25 02:38:51
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thatwitchindy :
Yup 😌 no notes
2025-07-23 02:42:20
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cry :
SCORCHING but absolutely correct
2025-06-24 16:42:58
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Felix :
Something about that take feels connected to an old take from tumblr about Dolly Parton feeling trans-coded because yes she is cis, but she performs a very deliberate form of feminine identity
2025-06-24 22:32:32
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chez :
this was the right amount of spicy
2025-06-24 16:39:02
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Paul the Nerd :
I ask this with genuine curiosity: what does lesbian actually mean in this case? Can a cis man be a lesbian too, with this use of it?
2025-06-25 01:48:07
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razzle dazzle 🇺🇸🏳️⚧️ :
it's not about the destination, it's about the journey
2025-06-24 22:56:51
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deloulou :
the debate being about labels makes me feel so disconnected from the argument because i don’t use any for myself, and i think they’re oftentimes too strict for human nature. but i’ve heard a lot of women talk about wanting a safe space for women with women, and i just need someone to explain how a man would be a lesbian? i’m not trying to say what people can and can’t do, i just fundamentally don’t understand the main concept being argued and no one will explain it to me?
2025-06-25 07:48:45
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RuneVex🇨🇦 :
look. im old now, and I'm tired. we've been here before, so very many times. policing queer language always ends badly, and I've ran out of patience.
2025-06-25 17:25:01
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thinkomancer :
basically my only cishet dude friend is this. Him being in a queer or trans space does not make it less queer or trans. He is an extremely solid dude.
2025-06-25 04:24:16
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Erik :
had that conversation with myself quite a bit. ultimately I decided that I don't feel female, have no real issues with being male, and while I can recognize an attractive man I'm only sexually attracted to women. I'm maybe a tiny bit... gender apathetic maybe? but straight and cis fits me just fine
2025-06-25 01:34:03
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gildedbear+tiktok :
I appreciate this. I'm a cis man that is almost exclusively heterosexual. I say "almost" because I've come to know that I'm demi-homosexual.
2025-06-25 07:00:13
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Radio /🏛️🍇/📼🌀🌌/ :
People will always say “it’s invaliding you” obviously not if they’re using it??
2025-06-26 21:11:46
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Sage :
a lot of people seem to carry their labels around everywhere they go where as i think a lot of these trans lesbians have multiple labels they use in different situations more as descriptions of their internal experiences rather than fitting a prescribed notion
2025-06-25 14:43:29
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bee 🪱 :
You’re 10000000% correct and i’m so glad you said it
2025-06-24 17:18:32
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Noelle 🦑 :
Also the people who post about it and say “yeah eventually I realized being this label wasn’t for me” and all the comments are hating on them calling them trenders…it’s so upsetting to me
2025-06-25 15:57:53
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(✿ ♡‿♡) :
mfw I realized I was taught this backwards and now I can't understand why it's confusing or angering for people
2025-06-24 16:53:49
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