@lolahasanote_: It took me months to understand this part of Islam. Now it makes more sense than anything else. #islamforyou #muslimtok #spiritualjourney #islamicmarriage #obedienceinislam #muslimrevert #marriageinislam #westernmuslim #myislamjourney #deenoverdunya
yes but being obedient here doesn't mean the same way a child obeying their parents.. it's more about the leadership and showing understanding and respect, doesn't mean you have to do everything he wants no
2025-06-24 17:47:07
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ilovefemalesgettinggrape :
Doesn’t Islam also tell you to put a hijab on?
2025-06-25 10:23:40
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radwan_079🇸🇴🇾🇪 :
World is healing
2025-07-21 01:35:12
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xyzphantomz :
The feminists must be sooo mad😂
2025-06-25 06:16:06
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Erdrickthe2nd :
You have been indoctrinated girl, very sad to watch this stuff
2025-06-24 18:53:01
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𝐍⁷ 🇵🇸 :
no matter how I see it i still can't accept it. i don't believe its the word "obey" that's used. I will not obey a man, the responsabilities he have almost all women have it by now and we are not respected for it. i think obeying a man no matter how good he is will only fuel his ego and he will use it against you.
2025-07-20 12:09:31
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Skyz :
People assume it’s total obedience too, it’s only obedience in what’s halal. It’s a huge responsibility to bear and this responsibility is more suited to the nature of man.
2025-06-24 17:46:10
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Scrambled Megladon :
So does that mean that men are also obedient to their wives as women have responsibilities too?
2025-06-24 17:18:20
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abzz :
Obedience means trust. A woman should marry a man she can trust has the qualities of leadership needed to build a strong family
2025-06-24 22:21:30
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def. :
in islam do husbands have to obey their wives too?
2025-06-25 04:35:22
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lolahasanote_ :
Let me know if you want a part 2 on this topic 🩷🩷
2025-06-24 17:00:47
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Amina :
People using mental gymnastics to justify control and comparing obedience to trust is insaneee
2025-06-25 12:37:37
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PITIOBEA :
WHEN A WOMAN IN ISLAM DOES NOT WORK, SHE LIVES A LIFE BETTER THAN A QUEEN. STAY HOME, GO SHOPPING, TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS, ENJOY EVERY MOMENT. WHY HAVE A MISERABLE DAY WAKING UP FOR OTHERS BUSINESS!!!
2025-06-25 20:05:08
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mayaekd :
Realll, when I first reverted a lot of thing made me so confused but realising the roles men have and women have are just different and actually make soooo much sense!!
2025-06-24 20:37:48
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tat :
it doesn't make sense. he is still a human. not going to put my life in someone else's hand and trust blindly, bc he will make mistakes and you cannot do anything, bc he is the one controlling everything
2025-06-25 06:11:40
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النقار 👃⛽ :
Obedience is mainly within marital matters, not for example if he commands her to run across the world.
2025-07-09 00:29:27
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˗ˏˋ nidal ´ˎ˗ :
" men are given responsibility not power " ✨
2025-06-25 09:18:07
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fatimah. :
well said sister💕💕
2025-06-24 19:49:39
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Souleiman Ghali :
It is not true. In the Quran, control is for the person who earns and supports the family. If it is the woman who does the support, then she is the boss. The verse is clear and doesn't use the word Zakar (Male), but the word (rajool) means any person
2025-06-25 09:27:25
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Nordic :
Slavery can also work if one part agrees to it. Doesn’t mean it’s right does it?
2025-06-25 04:09:14
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Joker 7🇷🇺 🇺🇸 🇨🇳 🇵🇰 :
Obedience in terms of of rolls: a man is the head of household, provider, security, leadership, and manhood while a wife: caregiver, mom, partner, and nurturer. Each compliment the other.
2025-06-24 22:57:02
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kool_editz.3000 :
This makes so much sense the way you explained it. But I’m curious how we can make sure it’s not misused in real life?
2025-06-24 17:03:30
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abdulla taymour :
YES!!! Men are responsible and given a bigger task!!! Just like how being a leader is not about the privileges, but it’s about responsibility and patience
2025-06-25 02:44:58
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Shirine Benbarka :
What makes a man good is his ability to carry responsibility and lead his own life with discipline. How can he do so if he has no responsibility? This is why Allah swt gave him that role, to make him good and you happy so you can therefore carry out your responsibilities as the woman of the house. A man can only be good if given direct commands from his creator & he follows them in his life. So let the man do his part and you can trust that he is good. if he can’t do his part then that is directly linked to his spirituality and where he is with Allah swt.
2025-06-25 00:30:55
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