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Brett Parker :
Hyper independence is a trauma response by someone who is afraid they’re unloveable
2025-06-26 20:19:46
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TimelessThoughts :
Hyper independence is great until it comes down to being vulnerable, building a bond and caring for another. Often it becomes a struggle internally, for you are used to only caring for yourself, your own needs, calming yourself and being there for yourself. It requires genuine emotional intelligence to then acknowledge that in a relationship things work differently. You'll have to learn to be attuned to another, to not only choose yourself but the bond you both share, to not isolate during conflict for the purpose of self-soothing. A relationship requires a team with two active players who go for the same goal, not two disconnected people who go in their own directions for the sake of their own comfort.
2025-06-26 10:57:00
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Ranch💋🇨🇦girl :
Safe right
2025-06-30 23:39:38
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JenniferClark :
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2025-06-26 23:27:03
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Niina.Heinsoo :
It’s insane how close I came to skipping Hidden Mindset Seduction by Liam Weissman. This isn’t just another book — it genuinely feels like something that was never meant to reach the public.
2025-06-26 16:58:49
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nataschadekort :
and than they leave you anyway
2025-06-25 17:53:55
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Jw235045613 :
Just don’t bring drama to their life, because they will leave
2025-06-26 20:49:47
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RytAid :
It takes an insane amount to let you in in hyper dependency
2025-06-27 06:13:03
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Mile high kid :
People will never understand! 💯❤️
2025-07-15 00:19:42
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Andrea Nunes :
Keep in mind emotional neglect is abuse! You could be hyper independent but if you don’t show up the way a person needs you want the intimacy without the work then you can call yourself abusive!
2025-06-26 00:46:38
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Megs 2283 :
Hyper independence makes you guarded but if you can find someone to accept you truly, you both know the relationship is because you want not need them and it can be amazing. Ask me how I know
2025-06-27 02:08:06
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SeasonedRice :
What you are describing is a need in disguise. “Want you there” they need the presence. “feel safe with you” they need the comfort and safety. “Your company feels better than their solidarity” they need rest from braving it alone. It all sounds like a mask, trying to hide the “need” for “preference”. They are terrified to admit that they did need. Afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all. Thats too vulnerable, too risky, too exposed, too dependent. “If i dont need you, you can’t hurt me” But real talk, maybe the purest love is the impure (imperfect) that dares to need, dares to be weak, dares to be vulnerable.
2025-06-27 08:38:32
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Tosca :
Is it bad that I don’t want anyone? I’m on my own. Don’t have family or friends. But I’m happy being alone.
2025-06-27 02:31:38
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Honestly :
Hyper independence is very toxic and can make you go insane if you’re in the relationship with them so good luck
2025-06-26 01:45:06
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Jules✨ :
Not all hyper independent people are avoidant. Some of us want connection too but we know we’re solid on our own. If both parties needs are met then it’s healthy
2025-06-27 13:44:05
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me.lost :
it can be extremely difficult for a relationship to progress between two overly independent people.
2025-06-27 04:03:28
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Kawaii Cute Sweet :
until they want a new model and will kick you out
2025-06-25 20:24:51
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Clinica Psychologia Physica⚕️ :
Strong independent woman 🖤🖤🖤
2025-06-26 20:40:22
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ribbonOfParticipation :
solitude not solidarity
2025-06-27 05:51:53
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Abroheim Lincoln :
Independence is healthy. Hyper-independence is unhealthy. It's a trauma response. Humans are social creatures. Yes, we should be independent, but you DO need other people as well. Whether you want to acknowledge it or not, this is literally a part of being human.
2025-06-27 20:20:16
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Taylor Sorce :
That who I am becoming it will have to be the highest quality. Goals is just me and something I should have been a 26 with a fender and fender mustang amp!
2025-06-26 16:03:53
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Danielle Ryan :
Forever Little Miss Independent 👑
2025-06-26 06:57:49
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C-Balance :
I respectfully disagree with you. Hyper independence means guarded. They may let someone in at first but then their fear kicks in and they avoid the relationship at all costs to protect themselves especially if they are treated well
2025-06-27 00:27:46
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JakiO :
I think you mean solitude not solidarity
2025-06-27 03:41:42
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Lorena :
Often times me telling someone I don’t need them but genuinely want them, gets misunderstood.
2025-06-28 10:46:35
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