@desi_boi_irfxxn: This was inspired by important people in my life that fell into oppression. When looking for a partner make sure they are more gracious than they are wealthy, and may Allah grant us pious spouses. #muslim #marriage ( also sorry about the birds )
assalamualaikum would you like to meet my parents?
2025-07-25 07:06:59
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Donut ✨ :
You’re raised so right mashallah duas for your mom!
2025-07-18 21:42:33
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deen and character ALWAYS come first. rizq is from Allah swt and w barakah and sabr everything else will follow
2025-06-26 00:27:25
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ز :
Always prioritise character!!! Worldly possessions literally do not matter
2025-06-25 19:24:50
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وعد :
If a man is generous , even if he doesn't have money, you can see his Generosity
2025-06-26 13:06:02
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nother :
on behalf of the sisters we appreciate this advice but most of us dont even care about money, we just want someone based on their deen and akhlaq.
2025-06-26 11:04:12
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H 🍉 :
What sustains relationships is not material wealth, but empathy, emotional attachment, a sense of trust, and the ability to cope with stress. It is not the abundance of money, but one's way of communicating, emotional regulation, and loyalty that constitute lasting inner assets. These assets are not found in bank accounts, but in the value system a person is raised with.
2025-06-26 08:08:13
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Herdiary :
I just had this conversation with someone 20 mins ago, it’s honestly so disappointing how no one pays attention to a potential spouse’s akhlaq and his/her relationship with Allah anymore. It always comes as an afterthought for many, when it’s already too late subhanallah… may allah grant us pious spouses and make us pious for our spouses inshallah
2025-06-25 21:13:10
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🦋 :
I agree but what do you advise for someone whose family is from a higher tax bracket? If I grew up with a certain quality of life, it doesn’t make sense for me to settle below that. Yes, character is important, but his wealth should also be able to uphold my current quality of life
2025-06-27 05:02:15
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{crybaby} 🩰 :
this’ a very good take!! I like how your mind works Allahuma Barikk
2025-07-25 18:31:01
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user5121366747629 :
what if he lies?
2025-07-20 19:54:14
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Aishaaaaa :
i can't even find one let's begin with that....
2025-06-26 20:56:35
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Shafaq-Us-Saher Awan :
even we settle for bare minimum they are like she is worthless that's why she accepting us , not the single formula help us
2025-06-28 00:18:25
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Maryam :
Totally agree Deen and manners comes first then everything is secondary and could be changed up or down
Every sister should know that money won't heal you if you were hart broken and will not stand on your back if you were on you lowest
so choose right sisters
May Allah SWT gives us righteous spouses,ameen.
2025-06-26 19:00:49
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Nature_islife15 :
But..... sometimes our parents think about what we will face so they will like for us to get married to someone with more income, U get what I mean? but, still character counts.
2025-06-29 06:28:28
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Loly 🫶🏾 :
May Allah grant us marriage, and may He bless us with a partner who is worthy of us and who pleases Him. A partner with whom we become the best versions of ourselves, walking together on the path of Allah. Ya Allah, make marriage easy for us, bless it for us, and allow us to do things in a halal way. Ameen.
2025-06-26 23:23:30
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Ahsan :
Teach me calistehnics bro
2025-06-25 19:37:57
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ل :
character, generosity, consistency, on Deen & respect. that's all I want tbh, because we'll end up earning money either way but all these other things can't be earned.
2025-07-18 17:29:35
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_khizr :
you owe me 25 cents. I ain’t letting that slide
2025-06-25 18:55:35
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lululemondrops :
When he’s making 50k a year he’s not really spending his income on much now is he
2025-06-26 01:02:17
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❄️Samaa❄️ :
Here we are humble and just making dua for someone who is good in Akhlaaq who is Allah Continuous and who follows the commandments of Allah swt towards their spouses. May Allah swt grant all those who are single good companions Ameen.
2025-06-29 18:09:57
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زينب :
more ppl need to hear this, thank you✨
2025-06-26 21:03:04
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