Professor Neil
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Thursday 26 June 2025 02:16:10 GMT
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The Empress Mermaid :
My hot take is being raised this way has led to a population of overweight out of shape adults. If you're not at the top and winning all the time, what's the point of even playing and exercising? As adults, you either have to be a top level gym-bro or don't bother.
2025-06-26 12:18:31
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L. 🌈🇨🇦 :
kids sports being a pipeline for professional sports is super annoying.
2025-06-26 18:52:26
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BonK 🇨🇦 :
my 9yo likes playing soccer. He's pretty awful at it. Can we find any programs that are just for fun? Nope, not even the city run programs.
2025-07-16 23:22:18
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pak :
We discourage kids from recreational sports and the complain about them spending all their time on YouTube and social media. Recreational sports teaches team works which is more important than training for Olympics
2025-06-26 11:27:44
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Allison Ab :
I don’t play team sports at all as an adult because as a kid I had too much anxiety about “letting my team down”
2025-06-26 02:53:06
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Meggie :
As a piano teacher, this breaks my heart. None of my students will be professional pianists but they deserve to experience and enjoy playing an instrument without too much pressure. Or even finding out they hate it and quit is valuable. That’s how you find what you love. And you don’t have to be the best to love it.
2025-06-26 14:24:53
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ADRienne 🧡 :
Everyone hates on millennials with our participation awards, but we had no say in them. We were kids, the adults were the ones making the trophies and giving them to us.
2025-06-26 05:17:15
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Crimson :
I danced as a kid. Loved it, until the studio started doing competitions instead of performances. Then suddenly every class was less about learning and more about perfection for scores. Haven't been in a class since but Ive missed it the past 20 years
2025-06-26 05:49:05
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Cat Neu :
I dipped of my own volition at 8 from softball because competition made it not fun. I tried picking it up again as an adult. Those hoes needed to chill. It was a “housewife” league! I quit again.
2025-06-26 11:14:03
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PepsiBepsiPeps :
I’ve always hated the expectation of if you do a sport you have to compete. I’d start so many sports and be good at them but the second it came to competition season I quit
2025-06-26 08:03:12
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Marzipan Pig :
I was "gifted" as a kid and not allowed ro do anything I wasn't excelling at. I think that kinda messed me up, because there's tonnes of fun things I'm horrendous at, but they're still fun. and why do I have to be good at them? Like, why can't I draw even though I'm horrendous? I always feel so guilty, like god will smite me, if I do an activity I'm very much *not* gifted at
2025-06-26 03:39:08
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JaLynnChar🇨🇦 :
It’s all about money - you can’t just play hockey- you need to pay for power skating, excessive equipment, hockey camps, let alone specialized lessons. And heaven forbid you take the summer off - you get behind and loose your spot. Are we still having fun or paying to stay in the game?
2025-06-26 12:04:51
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swagman69 :
One thing I loved about doing sports in a small town was that it wasn’t serious. No one is going pro or getting a scholarship. We just went out there and played hard for the fun of it
2025-06-26 02:33:54
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nope_ona_rope :
This is even true for dance schools now. It’s sad
2025-06-26 03:01:24
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Charlie 🇨🇦🌈 :
And kids aren’t allowed to start sports “late” if they aren’t doing it from the moment they can walk there’s no options for them. So if they’re 9 and decide they want to try hockey there’s not options cuz there’s the NHL goals track or nothing. It’s ridiculous and no wonder kids are playing video games so much. There’s not really other options for them. And I say this as a child psychologist
2025-06-26 15:53:32
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Ratutooee 🐀 :
Gen Z here- it’s definitely coming from the older generations. when i learned how to crochet, my family tried to get me to start selling everything i made. when i said i didn’t want to do more than the occasional craft fair, they asked me why i “didn’t want to have a job i’d actually enjoy”.
2025-06-26 13:23:02
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Emily Garside :
It’s wild, I didn’t do anything as a kid because I hated competing. Luckily now as an aging millennial I’m an adult figure skater who gets to finally do this for fun
2025-06-26 08:47:38
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Mr. Davis 🇨🇦 :
Parents perpetuate this on kids where music is involved, too. "Well you're not going to be a pop star, so you should drop choir and take an extra science." Excuse me, sir, can a kid not just fill their cup a little bit please?
2025-06-26 17:35:27
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user992332076231 :
We’ve gotten push back because I said my kids likely won’t do competitive sports. My kids are in a variety of sports but I don’t really want to do the weekends travelling or think we can afford it. I don’t think it’s a need 🤷♀️
2025-06-26 13:04:38
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iblamethetacobell :
Imma say it again: the lack of allowing people to do stuff recreationally in our society is destroying our kids, let them have fun. Not everything needs to be performance worthy
2025-06-26 20:16:45
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natasha :
im australian and follow nhl. ive learnt more about what the players in canada go through to make it and it's insane to me
2025-06-27 08:27:11
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Posy and friends :
When my daughter was 2 years old we went to toddler gymnastics. She was of very normal ability for a 2 year old. One Mum commented to me one day, “gosh she’s a bit tall for gymnastics isn’t she??”
2025-06-26 03:46:12
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zerocrawdad199 :
I mean you literally go to a public ice rink if you’re gonna be recreational figure skating. Unless Ontario got rid of recreational rinks which make no sense
2025-06-26 16:59:13
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They call me Rye🇨🇦 :
Wait like how north haha thunderbay north or Barrie north 🤣
2025-06-26 03:04:57
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Keelan Brydon :
I quit dance at 13 cause it had to be competitive. I asked the studio owner if I could cut my classes down to 3x a week, cause I was at the studio 6 days a week, and I was told that wasn’t an option, so I quit.
2025-06-26 14:33:18
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