Skyyy Segaetsho
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Nala :
I moved to SA 4 years ago. I got pregnant and bagolo mo lapeng ne ba re ke boele botswana so I stay with my mom. I said absolutely not; they wanted me to separate my baby and his father, two separate countries for 3 months? no no no. after a while of back and forth, my mom finally agreed and I paid for her flight to come stay with us here and in addition to that I paid for everything she needed while she stayed here for 3 months until she was required to physically go to work. I am expecting my second child and we are going to be doing the same thing again. during the 3 months she had to fly back to botswana a couple of times for work and each time my husband and i paid for her flights/her buses. I would've loved to go back home and live with my parents but there was no way I was going to separate my son and his father for the first few months of his life
2025-06-27 19:14:42
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MRS NK | MOM :
this is where present Fatherhood begins and culture really take it away from us
2025-06-27 10:08:55
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Wathuto🥹♥️ :
For my baby boy😅😅erile ke tswa 6weeks ke fa kere dibeke🤭ha ke riana ke hela haaa🤭
2025-07-28 05:24:28
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Mkhulu_Too_North. :
I did it the old school way, even shared a room with my mom. I needed it after a rough pregnancy and csection. I needed my mom and my brothers, my priority was my comfort and healing. Dad had to drive to us. I was very selfish about my needs bcoz happy mom=happy baby. Persevering the relationship was the last thing on my mind, I can't guard an adult.
2025-06-27 07:02:41
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user60284953057613 :
botsetsi ja bogologolo ga bo a siama bo kgaphela bo rre ko thoko.
2025-06-26 19:43:38
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Lebogang Lentle :
I feel like im gonna go home coz i cant do anything without my mom. And im gonna be there for 3 weeks max then going home to my Husband. God just needs to come through with our baby 🥺 ke ready and nna le baby re nale plan 😭😩 buang le Modimo
2025-06-26 22:13:37
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Mma Kennedy :
Kana with my first child my husband was not even allowed to stay with us cause ne ke nnetse ko lapeng i was like how thats my husband 😭 I struggled a lot tota i really needed my man around, now ke motsetsi with my second born in my house my rules mama came here for 7 weeks o tsamaile my husband is hands on from day 1. And i am here like what they avoided at first hewe hewe melao yone eo ke fa ke motsetsi my husband is around and nothing happened. Batsadi can be difficult at times yoh
2025-06-28 05:25:47
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Boago🥰🥰 :
Thats why you see a lot of relationships di hela after the baby is born ke tsone dikgang tsa go nna ko gae bo 6 months for botsetsi tota hela our generation we really know what we want ene all this has to be achieved when you have understanding parents also❤️
2025-06-26 16:32:15
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Goitseone Segaetsho :
Problem comes in when baby dad doesn’t want to involved. Some of them ba tshaba bana perioddtt my son is now 2 years and it’s been 2 months since we started staying with him…he knows he’s dad but because I stayed with him longer everytime I step into the room a nale his dad wa mo chenchela only because I’ve stayed longer with him ….The traditional route e chaetswe ke nako guys
2025-06-26 12:40:46
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Mich :
Men were kept away during botsetsi to protect the sacred healing space. It gave the mother time to rest, bond with her baby, and be guided by elder women without pressure, stress, or outside energy. It was all about peace, purity, and transformation
2025-06-29 10:21:53
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Shathie Nkawana :
I have 3kids and had them all mo lenyalong.. I went back to my mothers house for botsetsi jwa my first born for the whole 3 months. I was 25, had a C-section. Ke sa itse gore gate ke ireng hela and ko lapeng there were a lot of people to help. I gave birth in November. Husband was given partenity leave. December o tswetse early so it really wasn’t an issue me being home because we were both new to this parenting thing..the other 2 kids mum came a Mpaa botsetsi at my house..
2025-06-27 06:42:45
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Baili :
kana borre le bone need to bond with their kids, help you heal. nna ka dumela gore botsetsi jwa bogologolo ne mo sa siamela relationship after bo fela🤞
2025-07-22 22:19:34
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N O R A H :
Bathong nna i told my parents gore kago nna 6weeks hela, after checkup ke boela ntlong yame le mothowaam🥹 they said "lago senya ngwana eng eng"😑 i asked them gore a ngwana kewa bone😂 bare nnya then i told them gore good then ka vaa😋😂😂😂😂😂
2025-06-26 19:03:10
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Dolly🥹❤️ :
I had been in confinement for 3months since March we've been living with the baby daddy and they are really bonding and he is helping me with the baby tota 🥹🥹I would suggest the new botsetsi♥️🥰it's a wonderful experience 😘um gonna hit the + my love♥️
2025-06-26 19:07:00
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cherrywung :
Me and hubby both first time parents, he said Nope we will tackle this together from pregnancy to birth now our baby is 6 months we have seen it through together and every milestone we are happy. I don’t regret the decision 🥰
2025-06-27 05:02:35
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mimz❤️ :
When we were pregnant with our first . I went back home and he moved in with my family and I after 3 weeks we left. I dont believe in separating we made the baby together ,we must struggle together
2025-06-27 05:19:29
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Rolivhuwa Lidovho🇿🇦 :
I hear you Sky… I agree with you and i am not saying we should leave our culture and adopt others. But the way the whites do it for me it works . And why am saying that..because the father is involved. He’s emotionally involved. He gets to learn the ropes the same way you do. Things have changed Sky and at some point we need to adjust a little bit
2025-06-27 08:33:11
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🌸Zeembali🌸❤️😍 :
Nna I did the same stayed with my partner it was beautiful to watch the first month he was really hands on would help with the baby @night nd let me sleep n get rest …. Didn’t care about a clean house wanted me to get some rest he really took care of me and the baby ….no postpartum depression nd the bond Is insane🥰
2025-06-27 02:30:45
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Warona M :
My husband was there throughout everything, pregnancy and botsetsi. We left my mother’s house after 2 weeks cause i was very depressed (my mom and I are not that close) and my husband did everything for me, he cooked, helped me bath, took care of the baby, and I feel that brought us close together cause he was involved. But he was there with me through it all, I wouldn’t have it any other way.
2025-06-27 08:31:41
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Kalanga_Khloen :
"do what's best for you" yep🥺❤️
2025-07-14 08:02:46
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Lelo✨ :
Not you having the same surname as me .🫶😅
2025-06-28 19:13:48
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Rato 28💖 :
A friend of mine stayed only w weeks for botsetsi and after that she went back to her boyfriend's place are they should do this together back then it felt like kego thoka bothoko and stuff but looking back she made a good decision💖 because it was a new experience for both of them and now they are married💖
2025-06-26 16:50:38
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mami_nelz :
Thank you for sharing. I did the same. I couldn’t abandon my life as I know it to stare at walls and argue with my mom at home . Doing it with your partner is the best and you can adjust to your new role in a safe loving space without people imposing their way of parenting on you ❤️
2025-06-27 02:46:36
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Hloniey :
you are me i am you...my baby is almost 3 months n i never went home i stayed wth my bf n dts wat we wanted...n it caused ppl to talk
2025-07-06 09:29:58
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Lorato Nkaletse :
botsetsi mo go gongwe ke depression 😭🤞🏽 a ke gane ngwana wa ilelwa.
2025-06-29 17:31:33
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