@therealwaterhammer: POV: When your wife tries to wipe something off your face with her bare hand… and it unlocks a core childhood trauma you thought you buried deep. 😳🫣 She doesn’t ask questions. She doesn’t wait for permission. If she sees a crumb, a sauce stain, a fleck of mustard, or anything remotely resembling “schmutz” on my face, her hand is COMING IN HOT like it’s a contractual obligation in the marriage. What she doesn’t realize is this triggers the exact same fight-or-flight response I developed as a kid when my mom would SPIT ON HER FINGER — yes, raw, unfiltered, human saliva — and then VIOLENTLY SMEAR IT ACROSS MY MOUTH. 🧽🤢 If you know, you know. Childhood in the ‘80s and ‘90s wasn’t “gentle parenting.” It was public face-wiping with no warning, no remorse, and zero regard for personal boundaries. Grocery stores. Church. The DMV. Didn’t matter. If there was ketchup on your face, the spit-hand was coming for you like a heat-seeking missile. 🎯👋🏻 #m#marriedlifechildhoodtrauma

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