Sabrina🤍Friendship Coach
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Friday 27 June 2025 02:18:22 GMT
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CC Rae | AuDHD Storyteller :
Me: sets boundary with avoidant friend and holds them accountable when their behavior hurts me with the desire to keep the relationship. Them: tries to uno reverse by saying I’m crossing THEIR boundaries by asking them to acknowledge the rupture and do the work to repair. 🤨🙄 They then discarded me.
2025-06-27 03:43:53
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Ash_and_Ember00 :
ive noticed this to. some people want fans instead of friends.
2025-06-27 16:34:42
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maeexbaee :
They want surface level friends
2025-06-29 04:32:02
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B✨ :
: lmaoo they tried to guilt trip me when they didn’t get what they wanted from me by force and demand. got real mad and tried to flip the table on me. then got mad more when they knew i saw right through it before everyone else.
2025-06-27 10:32:19
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Leonie 🇦🇺 :
I cut off this toxic friend who ticked all these boxes. I still have a set of their house keys bc she only wanted me to feed the cat when she was away
2025-06-27 02:56:16
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QTNA777 :
Trauma seeks validation not connection
2025-07-01 07:59:19
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A.D Skipper :
yeah, no. I enable myself. I have been just fine...for years.
2025-06-29 21:23:01
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itNyaluetgo123 :
YES
2025-07-03 23:22:14
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Astral :
Never be around people who hate your “No”
2025-06-28 20:39:24
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GlamV0X :
Had someone try to befriend me who was like this. When I set my boundary they FREAKED out on me trying to play victim and even saying I'm trying to ruin their life? Cause I didn't want to be friends anymore no joke. Like.. yeah I was out of there so fast..
2025-06-30 03:13:58
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Nikki H. :
I remember telling my ex-friend that whatever energy someone gives me, I give back to them‼️She "chose" to be distant with me so I became distant with her back. She acted "confused" & then finally confessed. Turns out it had nothing to do with me. And yet---
2025-06-27 19:18:19
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StormbornCapricorn :
Thanks for reminding me that my mom doesn’t want an actual relationship with me. 😫😆
2025-06-27 15:17:04
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🎀MACSmovies🎀 :
Just remember that hurt people hurt people. If you've left an abusive relationship or family get therapy because you're going to seek to control others by setting up boundaries that are actually control tactics. Watch out for that otherwise absolutely. 🥰
2025-06-28 15:19:46
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Ravan 🦣 :
Realizing this made ALL of my previous "friendships" make so much sense when I could never understand why they'd prioritize XYZ person over me. The answer is, bc XYZ person would be ok with them stealing, lying,& engaging in objectively dangerous behavior. People that see those things as "little oopsies" instead of major issues that, at the VERY least, should be being actively worked on with professionals. But it's also no surprise why they're ALSO the same people who REFUSED therapy & support when they had resources and access to all of it.
2025-06-30 13:13:31
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Rose :
I told one how they’re jokes were really just disrespectful towards me, cause I was the only one they did this to. Now they’re giving me the silent treatment and I’m like, thanks this is a lot better now 😂
2025-06-27 14:04:19
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Megan Sell 🇨🇦 :
Exactly 100% accurate preparing to cut off a toxic friend right now. Who won’t take accountability for anything.
2025-06-27 05:00:39
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skababe78 :
I needed to hear this today. Thank you.
2025-07-13 17:48:39
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Casper :
they like that you tell it how it is until it's them that needs told
2025-07-02 01:46:26
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unigirl22 :
Thank You for this, I'm currently in this situation where I did set boundaries but they flipped everything and smeared on me. is it okay if I share and save this. 💙
2025-06-30 00:22:17
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hanee3812 :
I had a friend I attempted to set a boundary. They deflected, gaslit and then changed the subject to talk about themselves again. It was a one sided relationship 🤣 I withdrew my attention after seeing how she responded to my concerns and then they became obsessed- always the first to watch my stories etc but never engage. Was like I had a monitoring spirit after that. I decided to cut them out for good
2025-06-28 02:22:31
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✨️🧿Jadie🧿✨️ :
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
2025-06-29 04:03:42
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satorubbygrl :
yup. and tbh, I like it when my friends call me out because sometimes I crossed boundaries that I never realised I did... and it kinda make me reflect better on my boundaries, their boundaries. and just changing on my perception and values to be a better individual
2025-06-29 12:46:08
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Cristina Laura :
Well said
2025-07-16 06:06:50
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Jasmin🪻 :
Yes, and a lot of the times these are the same people who rush into friendships or are overeager to be best friends with somebody
2025-06-27 13:36:11
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Ellamae Daniels :
And place holders so that when they find a man they leave you and when they get hurt they come back 😂😂😂
2025-06-29 10:19:54
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