@tellthebeees: Original video by @Bre DeShon and @Miriam ! #tellthebeees #situationship #dating #nytimes #theatlantic #LoveIsland #materialists #thematerialists #hinge #datingapps #tinder
The language of the show, "You are now single and vulnerable" is so insidious.
2025-06-29 00:22:54
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Jeane’ | Homebody Lifestyle 💕 :
She’s right. You could put 10,000 hours into dating and end up worse off by being traumatized. But if you put 10,000 hours into anything else - cooking, reading, school, a career, working out etc. you’ll be better off than when you started.
2025-06-29 04:31:11
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Aurora Whimsy :
I’m white and wealthy. I married a poor man. Took care of him. Paid for everything. He cheated on me with my best friend.
2025-06-29 02:55:18
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Tony Elek :
It’s that dam phone
2025-06-29 02:58:37
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Rachel 🩷 :
The producers of love island came out and said they actually had trouble finding male contestants lol not because men weren’t signing up but because of their behaviours and morals
2025-06-29 15:30:17
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xoxonatur :
Men aren't raised to be accountable. The behavior of the past is no longer acceptable as women have their own freedoms now. Instead of ensuring men are raised properly they’re trying to binder on women’s rights. Nothing is going to change until men and the people who raise them change
2025-06-29 14:32:13
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Kaylynn Denis :
& They were so mad Jeremiah actually had his guard down and tried to like someone. It was so backwards to me
2025-06-29 16:30:02
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S Greenwald :
I wonder what role romance books and book boyfriends play in this.
2025-06-29 12:30:40
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Alejandra Victoria :
Phones are such a double edged sword. Like we are the most distant from each other emotionally but at the same time, you get access to spaces like this, where you can engage in deeper conversations and talk about things through a sociology lens. Like this deep level of conversation is not available in my current surroundings.
2025-06-28 21:01:12
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muddy :
You know who wasn’t nonchalant? Charlie and hannah. And they both got voted off😭
2025-06-29 14:17:44
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Deneil :
I hate how we always center men in conversations about the loneliness epidemic
2025-06-29 05:16:15
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naт a lιe :
everyone is like playing “the game,” and it makes dating so hard. like i am made for deep, meaningful connections/relationships, and it’s like impossible to find that right now
2025-06-29 01:55:59
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maddisokayy :
i personally think that society as created a dating pool of people who are scared to be alone but too scared to have a partner. people are more in love with the idea of love than the sacrifice and effort needed for a relationship. weve grown to have the idea that "we dont need eachother" and its sad to see...
2025-06-28 21:51:43
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breadhead2025 :
So you agree? We are in a chopped men epidemic 😂😂
2025-06-28 23:37:28
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Sarah🍉سارا :
I blame conservatism and fascism.
2025-06-29 05:20:34
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manuwanuu :
will this ever get better or are we doomed forever
2025-06-28 20:41:05
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Miley Reyna :
There’s no “rules” for dating anymore. Dating norms were called misogynistic and oppressive and the answer became “get rid of rules altogether”. Now there’s no structure. There’s no “hey Mom/Dad, I wanna ask this person out, how do I do that?” And that results in no clarity.
2025-06-28 22:57:01
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merry :
what's crazy is that almost none of the islanders have ever had real relationships. most said that they've never really dated or been in love. they have NO experience making deep romantic connections with others
2025-06-28 22:55:45
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Lopa :
To me reality tv is literally just a sociology study
2025-06-29 05:11:00
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Zaina :
No lol it’s due to casting big influencers only.
2025-06-28 22:46:28
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🫠I’m Jess :
Omfg, I am just now realizing that every woman I’ve ever known while dating at any age has said something to the effect of, “what is wrong with me?” when they can’t find someone dateable. Meanwhile, I have LITERALLY never heard a man say that. At least not in a serious way. 🤯 W O W.
2025-06-30 15:37:44
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StumblingUpward :
you get punished for being "kind, comforting" whether it be platonic or romantic socializing. I think millennials are the biggest perpetrators of this "too cool for you" attitude. vulnerability always guarantees people break boundaries, and they don't stop
2025-06-29 04:39:42
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Cayla :
I love applying a sociologist lense towards everything, thank you!!
2025-06-28 20:24:44
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dulcessss :
It’s not just the apps, it’s how we don’t want to mother men. There is so much unnecessary drama that comes with dating men and women are realizing that we are happier and peaceful when we are single.
2025-06-29 20:38:24
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